Guy I really like started talking to me and he is in a relationship. He is white and Asian. He has a white girlfriend and I'm black. All his exs are black and I'm definitely his type. We really hit it odd and sex is amazing. We talk about marriage and living together. He said he will break up with her. I think the girl already knows about me. What do I do in the situation? We already are saying I love you.
First thing to do is get an STD test since he's sleeping with both of you, and no one knows who else he and / or she is sleeping with. You need to realize that your body is a living temple of our Heavenly Father.
Once you realise this, there is no way you are going to actively participate in it being used by a man that is already in a relationship and who has no intentions of marriage. His girlfriend already knows and doesn't mind because they either have an open relationship (= more STDS), or she is also sleeping around (= more STDS). In any case, no matter how many 'I love you's' are said, all of the actions are the opposite of love and only hold risk for health mentally and physically. I would laugh a woman out of my presence if she even dared think of doing such a thing with me...
Therefore make the decision now. Is your body a living temple of our Heavenly Father that demands treatment as such, or is your body just a piece of meat to be used and abused by any man that says the right words and looks the right way...
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Find another guy. Ok? Cool. Keep moving.
Don’t be a hoe. Amen.
you... you already had sex with this dude that has a girlfriend? you're freaking ridiculous. once he finds another black girl, he'll do the same to you.
And you You think he's not going to cheat on you with another girl?
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What to do if he has girlfriend? Leave him the fuck alone and stop being a homewrecking slut.
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