Has girlfriend but has crush on me? HELPP?

[Anonymous]

i recently found out my ex-crush has been calling me his “senior crush” (i’m a junior) and telling everyone how attractive i am. He has a girlfriend and he even said he told his girlfriend about me and how i was his senior crush. What does this all mean, im so lost help

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah that's super confusing. On one hand it's flattering he thinks you're attractive, but calling you his "senior crush" when he has a girlfriend is kinda messed up.

A few things it could mean:

- He's maybe not that into his girl anymore and wants your attention as an ego boost. Wouldn't trust that.

- Telling her about you seems like he wants to make her jealous or insecure in their relationship. Major red flag.

- Could just see you as an unattainable "fantasy" since you're a year ahead. Likes the idea more than actually wanting to be with you.

- Maybe he thinks you're so out of his league he thinks it's harmless to obsess. But still disrespectful to lead you on.

None of it really screams he actually likes you in a good way though. I'd be careful getting my hopes up if I were you - dudes will say a lot to get attention when they're bored in their actual relationship.

Personally I'd keep my distance and not engage with his flirty comments. Dude needs to sort his stuff out before dragging other people into his mess! You can do way better than that drama.

[Anonymous]

Why look for meaning? At the end of the day it really doesn’t matter since he’s in a relationship now, plus you’re hearing this through the vine or “a very reliable source” so it’s not even like this is something he told you directly, just gossip. It could be my best friend saying something and I’d still take it with a grain of salt because it’s not coming from the horses mouth. I’d focus on myself and other prospects.

[Staximus]

Nevermind this idiot playing games with you, he has a girlfriend