I'm dealing with the same kind of sh*t.
This girl I work with has a controlling boyfriend that won't let her do certain things.
I liked her at first and made an attempt to hang out, but she refused (didn't know she was in a relationship at the time). She started flirting with me, touching me sometimes, and teasing me in ways after I tried.
At present, I ignore her. I do so because she's not worth my time and I got sick of her teasing ways. I know this because:
1. She's still with her boyfriend
2. She disrespects me whenever I try talking to her about other things
3. She still tries to play games with me
So I tell you what - cross this girl off your list and go meet new girls who are single and looking. You won't do well trying to pursue someone who's taken already. It's not healthy for either of you. If you want to hang out with her, use her as a CASUAL FRIEND to meet new girls. Don't let your emotions come into play, and don't let her appearance fool you. She's NOT WORTH IT.
-Even if she broke it off with her boyfriend, she's STILL NOT WORTH IT because of her flirty behavior behind her boyfriend's back at the time. That's known as a 'player' because if you reverse genders, it's a guy who has a girlfriend, yet is messing around with other females.
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This will sound cocky. But at some point or another everyone of my friends girlfriends has had a crush on me. A couple exceptions here and there but it happens. Sometimes you have to be the honorable guy and keep your fingers out of the cookie jar. There are plenty of beautiful women in the world and as long as you don't close off and allow yourself to meet and connect with them. There is no reason why you can't find a beautiful girl that is not in a relationship.
If you want to manipulate and play games yes you could probably get her into bed even break them up but if they have been together for 3 years you are going to have a hard time taking her as your own.
dont mess with her, she has a boyfriend, if you mess up her relationship... if she lets (you) a guy she's friends with get between her 3 year relationship... (and leave her boyfriend for you) she can deffinitly leave you in 3 years for someone else.
plus if you take her away from her boyfriend, karmas a bitch and therefore... something will bite you in the ass one day for it.. real bad.
dont do it... 3 years is long. I'm sure she loves the guy.. if she's that much of a bitch to do it to him, shell do it to u... she flirts with you but she has a bf... she deffinitly flirts with other guys too.
shell flirt with other guys while she's with you too. she's doing all this in front of you and your so blinded by it. just drop it before it becomes too serious...
its my opinion... I'm not telling you what to do or whatever. but its for your own good.
this girl seems like trouble.
look at the things she does. and she has a boyfriend. and not just any boyfriend... (OF 3 YEARRRRSSS!)
More often than not, when you date someone who has just come out of a long term relationship, or is still in one when you meet them, you run the risk of your relationship being a “rebound.” Are you familiar with what I mean by that?
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IMO this girl is trouble. I don't care what anyone says, but flirting with other guys when your in a relationship with someone already is completely wrong. hell that girl shouldn't even want to talk to other guys. if she is flirting with you, chances are she most likely doesn't have feelings for her current boyfriend, and has most likely cheated on him in the past. if I was the guy and she left me for you and you knew we were together, I would probably hunt you down. and if she is doing to her current boyfriend, what's stopping her from doing to you to. she is crazy, and she always will be. don't trust a hoe, never trust a hoe, won't trust a hoe!
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