Sorry to say this, but he's definitely using you. By not ending this you'll only drag out what he's doing with you.
Try thinking about it from his point of view, it may help. He has a girlfriend of about a year that lives far away. He decides to go to a party, get drunk, and has sex with someone he met there. She tells him she wants to be more than a one night stand so he doesn't get rid of her right then and there. The next two weeks he keeps up with his girlfriend and still sees the other girl on the side when he's not around her. This is all win-win for him (at least in the short term). He gets to stick with his girlfriend on the weekends and keep the new girl to fill the rest of the time.
STOP THIS NONSENSE NOW.
He's having problems with his girlfriend because he's bad at confronting issues. Just the same as him not saying "no" to you and keeping you around without ending it himself. He's immature and doesn't care much for anyone. This relationship is all fail.
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You are so letting yourself be played for a fool. So he's with you but hasn't ended it with his girlfriend of one year and you're ok with this? Kick this guy to the curb. Perhaps when he gets his act together you may want to give it another go.
Struggling!? What a pile of crap. Put him in a bag, tie the top, and toss him in the ocean; then you might see some struggling. I think the word needed here is juggling; as in juggling you and his gf.
you told him you didn't want to be a one night stand AFTER you slept with him? shouldnt you have made that decision before you did anything?
i don't think you're in the right to be feeling played when you knew he had a girlfriend but wanted to be with him anyways, its his girlfriend that's getting played.
what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you? I was in the same situation with a guy a few years ago (minus the sex) and he broke up with his girlfriend and me and moved on to someone else, and then he dumped her and moved on again.
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