Is kissing a good way to calm down and angry girlfriend?

[lastlyfound]

If your girlfriend is irritated or kind of angry at the guy... what's the best way to calm her down without agitating her further?

Listen to her & apologies even if it's not your fault

Hug her and Kiss her passionately

[Anonymous]

The best way is to either listen to her, actually listen rather than just hearing what she’s saying. Or give her some space to cool off on her own. Don’t apologize for something you didn’t do, just say “I know you’re upset right now and I want to understand what caused this and I need your help to understand so that we can work on this together”. If she’s super pissed still then just say “I understand you’re upset so I’m going to give you some space to cool off a bit, then we can talk about this again after”.

A hug or kiss might work only when she’s sad or crying, it won’t work when she’s angry lol

[avery58]

Neither but I especially wouldn't recommend that you kiss her when she's mad. Maybe take her out on a date.

[avery58]

But yeah you shouldn't apologize if you're sure it's not your fault, just my opinion.

[lastlyfound]

Would kissing her agitate her even more?

[avery58]

I can't speak for her, but for me as a girl if I was angry and my boyfriend suddenly kissed me yeah. It would make me feel that he's not validating or respecting my feelings, and if I'm angry I wouldn't want to go from 0-100 in a different mood.

[avery58]

That's why I think a date would be a good idea, it gives you time to warm up to each other

[Nikki1989]

Is that really the best thing you can come up with. I know most men fail at communication but damn, really?

[Chazmatazz269]

Say, “Listen here, woman! Calm down!”
Works every time. Ell oh ell!

[jahaims]

Just communicate