Why is it so difficult for women to accept that they are just a numbers game?

[Vegasrunner]

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It's unfortunate that reality saddens you. Ty for following my work. I am a former LV VIP host who worked in the strip. My job consisted of getting you beautiful attractive women in LV nightclubs. In addition I have also had sex w/ approximately 400+ woman, all of this demonstrating my understanding of the opposite sex. Good is a relative term, and does not refute facts. I don't know if the men I know are good, but they are all financially successful, which is the main metric that m

[Anonymous]

Because men and women have two total different dating processes. Women can't understand it because they are the pursued ones. They do not understand what it is like to be without options. Women always have options. They might be options she does not like. But they always have options. If someone could magically wave a wand and change the dynamics and as a result no guy ever approached a woman ever again, you'd see I Stark difference in the way women are. Some would just never date again. But most would. And they'd be uber angry about it. But after a few generations you'd probably see women treating itt like a numbers game as well. Because these women would learn to chase one guy and fail would likely e d in failure (as it does for men now). This is agriculture 101. You have to plant a lot of seeds to have a a bountiful harvest.

And I didn't even touch on, "what if men were as picky as women". What if guys dismissed a woman for the slightest perceived infraction like women do to men now. As I said. Women can't understand this because they have not lived this like guys do.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous This is one of the most accurate, realistic grounded responses I've ever heard on here

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks man. I've said this before on here trying to help women as well as men. I think men and women alike would be more successful if they took a deeper look at the dating process for the genders. Because men get offended that women are so picky. But like I said that's their process. Women (hopefully) choose a guy and put all her energy in that guy. And she feels crushed when it doesn't workout. Because a MENTALLY HEALTHY woman does not want to date a 1000 guys trying to find Mr. Right. Again she has the luxury of CHOOSING guys do not. Guys have to take what they are offered. And most will still eliminate him along the way. So a guy has to plant many seeds hoping one will grow. I think if more women understood this, and didn't personalize it they'd understand men better. A woman can END this in a guy at any time buy simply CHOOSING him. But to women that's another rule they have, they don't want to do. They consider it beneath them if they have to put forth anymore energy than the guy... even if it costs her a relationship. And unfortunately they're so entrenched in this it costs them repeatedly.

[Vegasrunner]

@opinionower I make it clear that I'm only helping guys partly because in my opinion women don't really need help assuming as you said they were mentally stable. One of the biggest disadvantages I think woman have is they are asked to understand all these things at a young age while men are allowed time to learn through trial and error. To your point I think all women personalize these things which leads them to not understanding men abd in a lot of cases being involuntarily single.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because of how they measure their desirability in society. Historically, a woman's status in the tribal pecking order was based upon her ability to get and keep men interested enough to provide resources to her.

If a woman acknowledges that she's just one of many women occupying a man's time, she's acknowledging that she isn't good enough to lock him down. That's kind of an insulting thought to the feminine sensibilities.

[Anonymous]

you're asking them to accept reality. not gonna happen

[Anonymous]

Because quality women are not a numbers game, and lower quality women don't want to believe they are low quality.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous If by quality you mean attractive then they definitely are a numbers game you'll need to talk to a lot of them to pull one.

[Opinion Owner]

By quality, I mean a lot more than just being attractive. Most women these days don't bring the same value to a man's life that women of the past did. The ones who do are quality women and highly sought after by quality men, and quality men don't play women as a numbers game.

[Vegasrunner]

@OpinionOwner that's absolutely bs and you know. Every metric available disproves your feeling. The only guys who say this nonsense are men who don't have any success getting women, and try to inaccurately placate to them. Women are valued by their attractiveness which is why when men have options they choose attractive women, organic bizare that an adult man would say otherwise.

[Opinion Owner]

What a pathetically sad mindset for a 46 yo man. I recognize you now, you're that Incel who's always posting bitter stuff here. My guess is you're either lying about your age, or you're single and not by choice. Are you divorced, or just a lifelong loser?

I'm sure what you say is true of yourself and the men you associate with, but it's not true for good men.

I'm married to a good woman by the way, so your theory about guys who don't think like you is bs. I've read enough of your posts here to know that you are a failure with women, so it's obvious you're just projecting.

To the ladies who may read this, know that this douchebag doesn't represent all men. Some of us care about more than looks when looking for a mate. Guys like this can only attract low quality women, if they can even do that, so their experience with women is all negative. Not giving excuses for guys who think like this dick, just an explanation for why some guys like him become bitter Incels.

[Anonymous]

It's probably difficult to accept something you disagree with I can imagine

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Disagreeing w/ reality only makes the person seem slow

[handsomelad70]

There are more women than men, so women get to be choosy (even the not-exactly-beautiful lasses) about their partner.

[Opinion Owner]

Wouldn't that mean the opposite? How can you be more choosy if there are less options, there is less to choose from

[Vegasrunner]

@handsomelad70 I think you meant to say more women than men, which population wise is true, but that only proves my point because there would he a lack of supply of men. Even less for the type of men women actually want.

[handsomelad70]

Thanks for the correction, Vegasrunner. But hot young women are much more highly prized than even handsome men until the ladies hit forty or so, at which age the lads' value trends upwards.

[Vegasrunner]

@handsomelad70 Now I understand your confusion. You are correct hot young women are much more valuable than handsome men. What you fail to understand is.

1. There are millions of hot young girls and millions more turning 18 everyday
2. Men are not valued for their attractiveness they are valued for their accomplishments. A rich young man is much more valuable than a hot young women in fact you could argue that a wealthy young man is probably the most prized possession in the world. So while hot young women can be choosey that can't be nearly as choosy as a rich man, and they have way less options. TBH you almost have it but you don't quite understand what makes a man attractive to women. How many women have you slept with?

[handsomelad70]

True, Vegasrunner, but plenty of accomplished men seem to be handsome, particularly if they become rich and famous before 40. Also, men care much less about women's achievements than their beauty.

[Vegasrunner]

@handsomelad70 Sounds like you're confusing handsome and attractiveness. A man's physical appearance is way down on the list of requirements in order to bag a woman. His accomplishments are what makes him "attractive" to women. Easiest examples is the music industry or sports. There's plenty of men in those industry who wouldn't necessarily be considered attractive however their accomplishments attract women. Go Google guys like Sam Cassell, Ghorge Muresean, and Tyrone Hill all equally hideous but has 10's. BIG, Big Pun and Fat Joe, are a handful of overweight rappers known for getting women. These are example that show society even understands that. Do you have any examples of homeless men, known for dating hot young women?

[strateguy632]

because accepting a lie is impossible.