I often read questions that sound completely illiterate? Not a moral judgement but it's not attractive?

[Makeushiver]

I have read many messages on this forum- both questions asked and answers offered- where the grammar, spelling and general use of language seems to be close to illiterate. In many cases these questions are part of a larger issue along the lines of does s/he, you, anyone think this is attractive -often with accompanying photo.

I don't think I would want to date someone who has such a poor command of the language. I can understand some who is in a predominantly English speaking country but perhaps was not raised in one. Most cases do not sound like that however. It usually sounds more like lack of education or perhaps just indifference. Do other member find this to be true and if so as off-putting as I find it? I don't consider it to be a personal fault but I wouldn't be attracted to someone who spoke like some of the questions I've read on here.

[Anonymous]

Yeah but I think most of those questions are coming from non-native English speakers tho (myself included). I at least try to be as grammatically correct as possible but I still slip up lol

[Makeushiver]

In which cases it would be myself - as well as most U. S. citizens who seem unwilling or incapable of learning any language but their own and then not even learning their own too well. May I ask you where you are originally from. Your English is better than the majority of native English speakers I've encountered. Thanks for response and take care.

[Anon10098685]

Ha sounds like another excuse not to have sex and don’t I have enough excuses lol