Why won't men today realize that they are setting themselves up for failure with online dating?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I found out about the above 8 years ago and I can't believe most dudes nowadays are still stupid enough to go on dating apps.

sometimes I ask myself, do guys who still use dating apps suffer from denial? are they afraid to accept how fucked up reality is?

[DarkLegacy]

Tell me about it, these apps bring out the worst people especially Tinder. There is a reason why people have to use dating apps. The other thing to bear in mind is a lot of women who use these dating apps are not actually interested in meeting men, they are just there for streaming and getting attention.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I agree!

To get attention and a rush of dopamine watching simps who use that app try their hardest to get with them.

They won’t be interested in you unless you look like Brad Pitt and even then they feel entitled to get free dinner and the luxury of a relationship

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why women today won't realize that they are setting themselves up for failure with online dating, tiktok, Instagram, only fans, etc.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

they're really not setting themselves up for failure. unlike us men dating apps works to their full advantage. as the video explain they got more options and access to men that will take them out for and fuck them for free.

with OF they might be selling their dignity but I doubt they care about that otherwise they would never join that shit. Tiktok, Instagram on the other hand they use that for like and attention which they will get plenty off since simps used those apps too unfortunately

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But that's also going to damage the mentally that can lead to failure. If they successfully gold digged a guy, they can also be successfully raped or get pregnant or have STD from those different kind of desperate men.

[DishLady]

EVERYONE is setting themselves up for failure with online dating. Beyond all the fake profiles are the false proclamations to wanting "something serious" when the person is simply intent on messing with you.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I got the opposite. I myself never wanted anything serious and when I was upfront about it the another bit the dust

[DishLady]

If you’re actually up front and getting the short term situation you want, good. The folks I know who look for a long-term SO/partner don’t tend to find satisfaction. The algorithms cater to certain things from what I can tell.

[slatyb]

It worked very well for my wife and me, and several other couples I know.

[NathanDavis]

never had the need to do it online