Why is online dating filled with low quality men?

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I've been online dating for a long time, many years already. I can say that 90% of the guys online tend to be very low quality men. Perverts, men with mental issues / problems, attention seekers, cheaters, guys who can't hold a conversation. Meanwhile all the good guys that I am seeing tend to be men that I meet at my job. Non creepy, all around good sane guy. why is it that low quality men that tend to flock towards online dating? why aren't there more good guys that are marriage material on the internet? they're all at work! LITERALLY!!

Evealyn · Accepted Answer

It's because basic bitches always lists the same things: she loves her kid (s) and dogs, and comes off as very negative/leary of men. And that's what attracts the "low quality men" that you speak of. I don't know why most women put their worst foot forward. I wouldn't. As I mentioned basic bitches imitate each other and if they hear that a certain style of online personal ad works for one of their friends then they will try the same thing on their account. Tinder and to some small extent Hot Or Not and this new way of dating means that a guy doesn't have to writes a profile and neither does a woman. They both just swipe left for the people they don't like and right for the people they do. Guys are effectively bombarding women with attention because most guys will close their eyes and swipe to the right so that they can increase their available pool of women. And the ugly and unattractive women will also swipe to the right for most guys, especially if they are a three or a four, or below.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

because they haven’t evolved. women who don’t want kids (even some that do) don’t actually ever need men anymore. we have evolved and they won’t catch up because they think the little liquid they spurt will save them but as more and more women choose to not have kids and until science advances where we can carry and inception our own children we truly won’t ever need them again.

shades777 · Accepted Answer

calling the kettle black, lol. there's shit tons of low quality women in online dating, i mean TONS,

super fat, 2 kids plus, a million tattoos, pass due, and absolutely butt ugly, or the career obsessed women.

all the hot chicks want athletes or super stars.

look men dont give a rats ass about what a women does for a living, all we care about is are you attractive, are you caring, can you cook, are you good at sex, and are you available.

WhiteBoyChill · Accepted Answer

Low quality men are rejected by society so they make their way online.

spoole · Answer

There are five kinds of heterosexual or bisexual women in the modern world, for the most part. Bad women that have a man they abuse. They are often the first to claim they are being abused. An abused woman that has a man that abuses her. She is often the last to admit she is being abused. A confident healthy woman that has a good man. A woman that has made her career a priority over a man or family , thus neglecting them. This type of woman never cared to consider the consequences to those that love her. She will eventually lose her man and possibly her family as well. She is often very successful while simultaneously being too busy to feel the loneliness that has become her existence. The very real "old maid" in the making. The last type is one that wants and feels entitled to that which she cannot have due to what she has to offer. The delusional woman is psychotic by definition and should be avoided due to mental health issues. She isn't necessarily a bad woman because she has mental health issues, but she is certainly defective. Fortunately, the sane and good people greatly outnumber the rest, so we can expect that most people find a relationship fit that is good for both. If you find you are an outlier, given the information above, you might want to ask why, rather than asking what is wrong with all the men I keep meeting. The same thing applies to men who keep asking what is wrong with all the women I keep meeting. Solid people won't have anything to do with those that aren't, beyond extending a helping hand, as one human being does for another.

MrHopper · Answer

I think its just easy to do... so attracts more lazy people who are not trying. People who are married or have a good life dont have much time to be online and are too busy enjoying reality... the people like you listed are sometimes desperate and have the time

EyeAmNiceGirl · Answer

Dating sites attract every type of person. Creeps have an equal shot at getting you to click on their profile as the non-creeps; whereas, in real life, your creepdar (similar to gaydar for guys) almost instantly goes off, snd you don't waste your time with ttem.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

And this, right here, is why I don't do online dating (I'm a guy who doesn't trust girls online, in part because of the unacceptable risk of being "catfished"). The truth is that you can't expect to find anything of value in a garbage bin---people usually hold on to what is valuable, instead of throwing it away.

Harleigh90 · Answer

Was told recently all the good ones our age are gone 😆 our only choice is to choose younger apprentice and train then 😈🤣

argot · Answer

Almost all men in every successful nation use the internet. For example 95% of U. S. adults say they use the internet. Therefore all those "high quality" men you seek are on the internet... They just aren't interested in you.

BeMuse · Answer

Everyone uses the internet, they just don’t all use internet dating services. Look at the kind of women that use internet dating services, I mean you’re a perfect example… You really think high quality men are searching for someone like you?

exitseven · Answer

Why would you think otherwise? Most decent guys can get a girlfriend in real life. Onlne dating is just somebody selling you a dream.

soccerchick4eva · Answer

I think its the same women and men.. probably because its easier to hide behind a screen and say and do whatever they want really

jshm2 · Answer

They probably think the same of you.  Also, you attract the men via your matches. Thus it's your profile and picture that is trash.

Grubhub · Answer

Maybe you’re a low quality woman. Most women want what they can’t have or want what’s way about if their league. You might be making 40k a year and you want a damn surgeon or any kind of doctor as a partner

Fireguy17 · Answer

Try better dating sites. Dating and finding the right person is a lot of work, kind of like a job.

jasco · Answer

Because dating apps are just for hook ups. Most guys who are worth their salt aren't on dating apps.

dolemite89 · Answer

guys with game can meet girls irl and don’t need to try to go online

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Have you ever thought about why you're not attracting the guys you want?

Anonymous · Answer

🤣🤣I’ll tell you why!!! Because you never give them a chance. You say NO to so many men that you would consider if you spoke to them. Maybe it’s you, or maybe you attract these men?

Julious0202 · Answer

I've notice the same in relation to women on tinder…that's why I deleted it and never went back to this crap

Anonymous · Answer

Same reason Online dating is filled with low quality women...

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Yes bcoz girls miss noticing interesting guys like me

Slim57 · Answer

Because women never give the good guys on there any chance.

Anonymous · Answer

You're a 30 year old woman who has been "online dating for a long time, many years already", and you're wondering why you attract ow quality men? LMAO!

Mehmetingezegeni555 · Answer

if you're looking for a good guy, he's mine 😂

Fuentes · Answer

Cause most men dont need online dating

Pillarofhell · Answer

Do men at work let you talk to them? After me too?

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