Do you believe that dating apps are filled with lower quality people?

Question

It's been my experience that dating apps are mostly used by people who can't get dates in real life. Lotta low tier folks such as the socially awkward, less attractive dudes, short dudes, or perverts or single dads, guys with personality issue.

BonzoInBitburg · Accepted Answer

100%. If someone can get a date in real life, they don't need an app. Apps are a last resort.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Accepted Answer

Nearly all of them. People are just looking for sex or looking for men that have money.

MrOracle · Answer

It's true. But you know what's also true? It's also full of lower quality women. It's exactly the same logic - higher quality, more desirable women get snatched up quickly and attract higher quality men. Those women have likely never used a dating app. The women who are on the apps are the ones who don't succeed at attracting the men they want in the real world.

Here’s the main difference between the men and the women - the majority (not all, to be sure) of the men know and accept their social ranking - they are reminded of it constantly and it's completely socially acceptable to point it out publicly. But the majority of the women are completely delusional about their own social ranking, and anyone who points it out to them is both immediately attacked and the girl will have a parade of people telling her she's a queen and a 10 and is better than all men - yet her outcomes don't reflect the delusion.

Feminism has taught women to BECOME the men they'd like to date, rather than to attract the men she'd like to date, and worse, it's taught women that women are valued the same way men are - by their experiences and their resume. But that has never and will never be how most men value women - it's essentially the opposite, in fact.

Men value YOUTH, a LACK of experience, loyalty, respect, cooperation, and femininity - NONE OF WHICH most women ever talk about when they are trying to prove their worth. Instead, we hear about their looks (which are visible to everyone and thus everyone can judge for themselves) and their resume, which men absolutely assign ZERO value to.

So, the woman on dating apps almost all believe they are FAR above average when they are nearly all average or below average (JUST LIKE THE MEN), and so they reject the men on their level or anywhere close to their level and all think they are going to get a top 1% man. But those men would NEVER take a woman on a dating app seriously - the very fact that she is on a dating app already tells him the same thing it tells you about the men on the app - that they aren't successful at dating in the real world.

BUT, many high-ranking men DO use dating apps, and they do talk to women far below their own rank, but it's not to date them, it's to bang them. For those men, a dating app is just a "casual sex on demand" app, and there is an endless supply of women who really believe they have a real chance to get a commitment from one of those men, so they are willing to give it up - to do ANYTHING he wants, so she can have a chance. But it never actually happens.

So, don't get your ego too inflated. Yes, the vast majority of men on dating apps are in the lower 80% of men, and there is very little of the top 20% because they already have a woman (or several). And the few you will find just want casual sex. But the woman are no better, and arguably worse, because so many get used for sex because they have inflated egos and self-worth and the top guys can easily use that against them.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not necessarily but yes there are a lot of those type of people on them for sure , all that matters is that you are wise about who you pursue and not pursue on dating apps , I know a lot of happy couples that met each other from the internet and dating sites , so internet dating isn’t necessarily bad if you meet someone you have great chemistry and connection with and you both are honest with each other , bottom line if you can’t be honest with someone then understand you are just wasting your time with that person because nothing is going to come of it whatsoever , you might get laid but that’s it , because nothing more will come of it especially when the truth shines. I have met some girls’ off the internet and some of them have lied to me but i eventually found out the truth and stopped dating them , mostly taken girls’ that are cheating on their boyfriend or husbands. That were looking to be saved from their relationships. All they got was laid but nothing more from me once I found out the truth , so dating sites are pretty similar to meeting someone in public , it just comes down to whether they are honest or not

ohsheeT · Answer

Well, everything you just said, right? There is just everyday people, everybody's different. I personally have never been on a dating app. I don't ever want to go on a dating app. It's just not for me, just because of all the above, it's a meat market. And people only want one thing that's meat

AviatorTom · Answer

There are all kinds of people on dating sites and apps. I met my wife on a dating site, my ex-wife met her husband on one. And I know many other couples who met on them.

coachTanthony · Answer

No but many are lazy with low quality profiles and photos.

sarahhjohnsonn · Answer

I think people confuse two different things here.

Dating apps aren’t necessarily filled with “lower quality people”, they’re filled with a lot more noise than real life. In real life you might meet 10–20 potential partners in a month. On apps you’re suddenly exposed to thousands of profiles, so naturally you start noticing more weird behaviour, fake profiles, bots, people just promoting their Instagram or OnlyFans, etc.

That doesn’t mean everyone there is low quality — it just means the signal-to-noise ratio is worse, so you have to filter much more.

For example, Tinder itself has a pretty mixed reputation because of things like fake accounts, abandoned profiles, and people using it for things other than dating. I actually looked into a breakdown of their reputation signals and moderation reports recently — this Tinder trust and safety report explains it quite well:

Once you understand that dynamic, it makes more sense why people have such wildly different experiences on these apps. Some people meet their partner there, others just run into bots and time-wasters for months.

AnonCuriousGuy · Answer

I think using dating apps are a good option. I used it just to get a match and the rest was done face to face. People say do it face to face but todays society standards and situations have risen a lot. I think people use the app to avoid the instant rejection you get from even saying hi.

In terms of your questions l agree the quality is low and that's by design.

I mean think of it, they are a business and businesses need to make money. So the longer you stay the more they benefit. Call me sinical or what not but that's what l believe. Also not all dating sites are like this just a lot of them

InknKink · Answer

I don't think dating apps are filled with lower quality people.

The difference being that of the thousands of individuals you meet in person, only a very small number will be considered for the chance at a relationship. The opposite is the case with dating apps in that every interaction is a consideration.

Dating apps are a time sink.

Anonymous · Answer

Just the women, really. I wish guys really understood how many of the women who use dating apps are rife with STDs. If they did, they wouldn't be complaining about their lack of success. Most of these women are actually doing them a favor. Besides this, most of these women are of very low character. Most are single moms, have had multiple abortions, and have little to no career prospects. Have multiple piercings and tattoos. Many are incapable of a healthy relationship and are victims of sexual abuse. And they are very immature. They're not really women. They are psychologically regressed fully grown girls.

ammar12343 · Answer

I don’t know what it’s like for the experience of the woman but naturally you guys are more selective so I’d imagine you feel as if there’s more lower quality men. I never had this experience though. We live in a digital world, and it’s not so strange to me that people have digitized dating in the way they have social connection on instagram and TikTok. I haven’t been on a dating app in the long time though. Married now.

Master_Debator · Answer

I mean... people that can't find love in real life, lasting love... getting ran through or ignored online endlessly... You really want to try your luck with that shit? I don't.

Rangers · Answer

Here's an idea: Take your negativity someplace else. Your negative tone and insults towards others will get you no friendly remarks here.

If you think your words will drag any of us down, you're wrong. I'm gonna go have dinner, you just sit there and be alone with your miserable self. Ta! 🫡

Abbycado · Answer

I ask the same thing about this site every time I see an anon.

dragoblack · Answer

No, the biggest problem is almost all of them are made by the same company, which is why their algorithm sucks, and the fact there are so many scam bots & onlyfans-solicitors on there. If it didn't have that self-sabotaging algorithm and all accounts flagged when they quickly drop their snapchat before talking (they alway drop their snapchat then from there try to get you to join their onlyfans)

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yesss.. Guys just wanting free sex and then just a lot of dudes who don't go out and socialize.

Gobbyjobby52 · Answer

I've heard some of the stories of very disturbed men and women acting casual or weird on the first date through these apps and then stepping it up to 500% and stalking their date leading to a lot of legal action taken. I wouldn't recommend it.

Anastasia4real · Answer

Not all but Yes many pervert lott bit talk and directly ask for figure size etc and quickly ask for personal mobile number and if denied behaved like hungry animal..

MissSunshine2 · Answer

Quite often, yes. However, I've made two really good guy friends through using Autistic dating and friending apps and we're still the best of friends to this day, so not always.

slatyb · Answer

Filled with? I don't care who they are filled with, I only care if there are people I want to date. Maybe that's just 5 women out of 500. That's ok, that's five that I wouldn't meet otherwise.

Anonymous · Answer

They are designed to keep you on there. Men generally aren't as good at selling themselves as women, and the numbers are stacked against you. Your list describes the majority of men.

Anonymous · Answer

Not everyone on there is low quality, but there are a lot of players and pervs and bots. The single dads aren’t bad though. At least they’re doing the right thing by their kids, and plenty of women their own age are into that.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Perhaps. Fortunately I have never had the need to use one. What have you noticed with using them or with past boyfriends?

msc545 · Answer

No, I don't think that's the case. Dating apps are filled with women who can date almost anyone and like the mass amounts of attention that they get. They are also filled with men who are sick of such women but look anyway.

FreyaRed · Answer

Who cares?  Attractive people don't need dating apps at least not for finding a date

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, obviously. Quality people don't need dating apps.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Mainly, yes. A high quality person will soon see that most people on the site are losers and vagabonds.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Pretty much

Vegasrunner · Answer

Kind of. in my opinion if a woman has to go on a dating app it probably means she's lower quality.

LiamS95 · Answer

You're probably right although I have no experience with dating apps as I've never used one.

Jersey2 · Answer

But does that invalidate them as a longterm mate? To some I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably I was likely one of them low quality fish 🐠 🐟  Come and hook line sinker me ladies lol 🎣 🎣 🎣 🦦 🎣

blackeagle007 · Answer

Lotta fakes, window shoppers. I’m done with those apps

Anonymous · Answer

Designed as a distraction while they pass laws against breeding especially in the west

robocop666 · Answer

I went on them and quickly realised I do better in real life

LC75LC71 · Answer

I don't visit them.

Anonymous · Answer

In my experience - yes.

loveyouoak · Answer

Absolutely!

dudeinohio · Answer

Not everyone

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