Why is dating nearly impossible for most men now?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Law of diminishing returns. Most women have vast options when they're young. They squander one after another till they start getting some wrinkles. Then they realize they can't afford to play around anymore. Then they find that the best men have been taken and the 2nd tier men are sick of thier games. So then they go down the list with options getting worse and worse, and she's only getting older. Finally she reaches the end of the line. A few guys will still date her. But only for quick roll. And then it's up to her whether she wants to delude herself for 1 night of a man's attention. And that largely depends how lonely and bitter she is at this point.

Welcome to modern dating. 😆😆😆

[Greenbins]

Because most women have ridiculously high standards

[DaveJord]

Dude, I wish I knew.

Women these days have lived through past 20 years of women empowerment. So, they feel empowered to expect more and want more, and to see men and an obstacle. So, they draw on men's nature to empower their own sense of self-worth or value. This leads to some very unrealistic expectations, for themselve and other to meet.

Since society has programed them to never except less, they tend to think that anything less is settling... and that as a woman they should never have to settle. They fail to realize the truth, which is they have overestimated their value, and any expectation that man could or would be able to afford that price makes them unattractive.

Nice tits, firm ass and athletic body doesn't make up for a shit personality or drama filled life.

All the real things of value that men used to do or provide for woman; they can honestly provide for themselves. So, I think this had led them to devalue men, or over value themselves. Whereas men just want a good woman, not to cook or clean for them, but to treat them good and love and care for them... women just don't a good man as deserving of that unless they go above and beyond to meet unrealistic expectations.

No self-respecting, confident and accomplished man is going to come home and pander to a womans constant emotional needs and wants. Unless she is up lifting that man and treating him just as well as she expects him to treat her. But his expectation of her are lower then her expectations for herself and others. Which is why happiness is so hard for to find, when it is really just right there, but they are constantly looking past it.

[Anonymous]

some seem to put too much faith into unpersonal online dating aps or sites , its unrealistic to assume an average guy could meet dozens of girls he's never meet before online through these sites. i personally think it works better if you meet them inperson , its ok for there to be a certain % of online chat or text with them but needs to be an inperson element

[AaronKrieger]

What? Just be able to have a conversation and be willing to click with someone while making sure you take care of your appearance. There are plenty of average dudes out there in a relationship right now, so it's not nearly impossible.

[UniquelyBasic]

Seems like a lot of men don't have their shit together and women have raised the bar, not accepting just the bare minimum anymore which I don't think is a bad thing mostly.

[Asker]

That's a misconception. I think a lot of men know they have to work hard to attract a woman, the problem i think is women feel they deserve a unicorn

[UniquelyBasic]

I agree some women have an unrealistic standard for men but I wouldn't say it's as many women as some may think.

[Asker]

Its enough to get men talking about it

[Anonymous]

I think it's difficult for both men and women. There are a lot of reasons but one reason is that everyone is looking for something that doesn't exist. No one is perfect.

[Asker]

If it was the same, men wouldn't be turn onlyfans and simping for random women they have no chance with

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats not the reason at all.

The problem is people AREN'T looking for a perfect match, when they should be.

Instead they settle or just give up, and they end up single parents/divorced.

Everyone is perfect for someone.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome Disney

[TheSpaceGnome]

Disney is typically terrible in that regard, most characters that end up together have nothing in common.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome But kids eat that shit up and it sticks with them even when they're older

[Asker]

Disney movies teach us at a young age how love is supoosed to be but its a bunch of bullshit

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing teaches you what love is, love is a basic instinct.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome The only real love you get is from your mother. Romantic love is never actual love

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats not true.

Love is the admiration and appreciation of that which brings you joy.
Love is commonplace.
We love affection, personalities, colors, sounds, feelings, family, spouses, friends, pets, art, music, games, movies, books, places, architectures, knowledge, tools, food and drinks, the list goes on and on.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome I wish i could believe that but i dont feel i ever will

[TheSpaceGnome]

The neat thing about facts, is they are true regardless of whether or not anyone believes in them.

[Asker]

@TheSpaceGnome Okay?

[LiamJHayden]

It isn't. An unwillingness to do so does not make it impossible.

[Asker]

Its not impossible but it is very difficult. Its like trying make a layup past Lebron james without him blocking it

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe sometimes, but there are also a lot of 6' tall baskets being guarded by armless midgets. Most guys just need to spread a wider net. There are great, low-maintenance, non-drama queens out there.

[Asker]

The failure outweighs the success but meh

[Anonymous]

No one waste time in dating...
Fuck n forget policy works..

[Heolurt]

One word. Females.