Is dating impossible for young men?

[Anonymous]

I was in the mall today and saw a really pretty girl. Really stunning. Am I even allowed to even go up and talk to her? Going up like that is considered creepy, wrong and just unwanted 😕

I’ve tried the apps and I’ve been inandated with likes and matches yet I recieve constant ghosting, un attentiveness and I don’t bother with the girls I didn’t find attractive

I am very lucky in life and on a very bright path, and still the game of dating is like a maze. What’s wrong with women? What’s wrong with society and what’s the cheat code to all this?

Dating is impossible fore young men

Dating isn’t impossible for young men

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I am 25 despite what the profile says

[Summeroflove]

Not impossible but I generally avoid approaching people I don’t know and online dating. It’s just not my style and it’s not how you really find anything genuine most of the time. Most the time it takes time for me to get to know someone to decide if I’m attracted or not.

The thing is you’re allowed to go talk to people. They can choose to ignore you or tell you they aren’t interested. Sure…. Some people will think you’re weird but you don’t know them…. So if that’s how they are be glad they rejected you imagine the poor son of a bitch whose going to be with someone like that.

The only thing that can get you into trouble is making sexual comments and not leaving someone alone when they ask you to. But talking to someone is fine.

My advice is to sure meet people. Find people maybe in your circle that you know and like. Do things you enjoy doing and through that you’ll meet women who also enjoy the same thing you do.

For instance. What hobbies and interests do you have?

[Sceprent]

Ignore the stupidity. You’re gonna be inundated by stupidity anyway w modern dating as it is.


That’s totally a fine place to talk to somebody. Don’t listen to the roles of where to talk not to talk blah blah blah dumb. They’re gonna play so many games already that you don’t want to deal with the extra stupidity.

[Anonymous]

Dating apps are pretty hopeless if you’re looking for a serious relationship. You can definitely go up and talk to a girl in public, just gotta have situational awareness and play it right. I notice that guys nowadays don’t really know how to flirt, they just straight up ask for your number without a build up.

[Anonymous]

Thank you for checking in for another crying session. A therapist is the help you need, which we are not.

[Anonymous]

not impossible but not worth it

you could spend years building yourself into a high quality man only to be offered low quality women as dating options

[AnonAndrew]

Of course it's not impossible. Many young men are dating.

[Nikki1989]

How can it be impossible when most seem to be dating?

[HungTexan]

Just work on meeting more people at work, via mutual friends, etc.

[Anonymous]

More like dating is not worth it. Concentrate on only getting sex and dump them after. That's what they want, that's what they're used to.

[Anonymous]

Wait until you’re 18 at least

[Asker]

Bro I’m 25 despite what the age says

[Opinion Owner]

Well, yes, you can date whats the holdup