How can a guy have personality, charm and humor if he’s an introvert?

[Anonymous]

If a guy is born introverted, is it possible to attract a girl with personality if he is not the center of attention, cracking all the jokes and stories at a table?

Fake it till you make it doesn’t work. You can’t force yourself to be an extrovert if that’s not who you are.

[ruby_mk]

Some women don’t like guys who are all over the place, cracking jokes etc. most women who them selves are extrovert mostly seek out guys who are introvert because that gives a sense of mystery which even if women don’t admit ignites some very interesting emotions


You can use being an introvert to your advantage rather than pretending to adopt a persona which you are not:


You can become very attractive by working out and dressing in an emasculate style. Invest in wardrobe. Before exuberayting charm your body is going to do that for you. It works wonders with a lady


Now a days chivalry is dead. If you even act out interms of basic chivalrous ways like opening a door, politely helping, being god with children all these things will be imprinted on your body and women can sense these stuff from a mile.


You can become humorous by using a situation to playfully tease like for instance “ this dash is taking me to preschool” this is just a very very basic example

[thatshydork]

Being shy doesn’t mean you’re not funny. I was shy growing up and yet I had my friends and family rolling with laughter.

Something I learned through the fact that I hardly ever spoke to my sisters friends was that you don’t have to be outgoing to be charming. I just barely made small talk with them and they still adored me.

While being an introvert may make it harder for people to notice you, it’s by no means impossible. I was pretty quiet and shy and reserved growing up, but I signed myself up for some activities with my friends and made new ones because of them.

[Asker]

It depends on how attractive you are. It seems that looks make or break an introvert which is why weight loss or building muscle should be a priority to get noticed.

[HawkPerception]

Actually that's not true at all. Any introvert can become extroverted. Any introvert can develop social skills. You don't have to be the funniest guy or center of attention. When you're with girls, it's about being personable, not being the life of the party. And any social skills that might help with girls can be gained through experiences.

If doesn't matter if someone is born more introverted naturally. If they force themselves into environments and scenarios which allow them to learn how to socialize better, they will inevitably learn it. You every introvert who works at a company just avoids people altogether, even when it's a mandatory part of the job? No. They have to deal with it and learn from the experiences.

[Anonymous]

Sheer luck! Half the women on this question are lying to you. Here's the truth. A woman finds you interesting or she doesn't and that can only happen if her weird matches your weird. For an introvert she has to be paying attention to see it. So you're fighting an uphill battle if you're an introvert. You have to engage in things that put your personality on display with needing to commit socially or verbally. I like going to concerts. That works for me. I almost always have at least one woman approach me at a concert.

[Account]

It can happen and it is actually not that uncommon. I have met some introverted people full of charm and with lots of interests.
Introverted doesn't equate to boring.

[Asker]

That only happens if they’re good looking. Attractiveness matters more when someone’s an introvert due to pretty privilege where people pay more attention to the hotter person in the room.

[bobalife]

Of course! Everyone has their own preferences and attractions lol. Don’t downplay being an intro or extra, everyone has their own charms tbh. I think introverted are more mysterious and you don’t really know what to expect. Of course intro can be funny and still has a good personality lol. Hopefully this helps :)

[DishLady]

A guy either HAS personality and a sense of humor or doesn’t. Being shy isn’t the determining factor to that bc you still have the inner monologue running regardless of whether you’re super shy or super charismatic. It’s just a matter of wanting to share your thoughts and feelings with others.

[TommyMountainFigure]

An introvert can use charm and humour by making his words count, even if he doesn't say many!

As an example, when you look at the movie A Few Good Men.. The one with Tom Cruise and Jack Nicholson. Nicholson was quietly spoken and never had much to say, yet his presence is what makes that movie memorable!

[Okra9-]

To have enough masculinity, women dont care about your social life, they care about how you treat her and treat yourself, if you take care of your appearance, ( enough physical activity, good diet) and you take care of her emotionally and financially, you will secure a great partner

[DarkLegacy]

Only vermin go for a guy because of his physique

[Asker]

@DarkLegacy You disagree that women can be as visual as guys are?

[mattthefatbat]

Well honestly an introvert can be all those things, he can have personality, charm and humor, doesn't mean he has to show it publicly 24/7. He can be that way whenever he chooses and around anyone they choose.

[mattthefatbat]

Personalities charm and humor don't always mean doing what others do, it's about doing and expressing yourself the way you feel the most comfortable with being. By doing that more people would be able to read you and your character a little more clear. It's hard to understand what being yourself means when you don't quite know what you yourself like or enjoy but keep digging and you'll find it

[Unit1]

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[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I know a few. An introvert guy who has personality, charm, and humor.. it's a perfect combination. 😍

[PapaJedi]

fellas, she's talking about me ;)

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

@PapaJedi 🤨😂

[PapaJedi]

it's not me? :(

[paledreams]

The jokers will say he's got money or looks - i suppose the real answer is just - depends on the woman... there really are some who'll bang a man for the right looks or for the right swagger

[CrabCakes11]

Yes. My boyfriend is an introvert and I love his personality and humor. You don’t need to be loud to have a personality and attract women.

[Kingofkings1992]

Introverted doesn’t mean you lack personality. It just means you enjoy time to yourself to recharge. Being super sociable is not a requirement to attract a woman.

[jahaims]

Charm and humor would be a part of a personality not something separate

[Twalli]

Yeah, because introverts do talk to people. They just don't talk to a lot of them.

[HappyWoman34]

Yes, definitely 😊

[mayurr]

It's impossible for introvert men.