Do traditional, conservative men from western countries still encounter massive difficulty when trying to find love abroad? Is it really easier?

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I gotta be honest.

I know there’s a lot of guys on this site that say “date foreign women, they’re better”

And I agree, in the general sense of the society and culture in those countries, but I still feel like as a foreigner with more money than the local guys, you’d be like a massive magnet for gold diggers.

You’d have girls that don’t know the first thing about you, but they come running after you the second they see you and pretending to be in love with you. They laugh at everything you say and act all cuddly and intimate.

I don’t know if that’s what actually happens, but its kind of the impression I’m getting just by reading from “passport bros” on reddit that say they’ve travelled to those places. How the women are “in love” with them the second they see them (even though they obviously aren’t)

So even if you were going to a country with a higher prevalence of traditional, like-minded women, I’m not necessarily convinced it would be easier to date, just because of who you are most likely to attract when visiting.

Maybe its as simple as just brutally rejecting the gold diggers and shutting them down as quickly as possible.

And then just forming friendships with men/women/genuine people and expanding your social circle as much as possible until you eventually meet somebody.

But I guess the other question is, how would you distinguish a gold digger from a woman that’s actually into you?

I feel like time and patience would be the only way to properly gauge a person

But even then, they could still theoretically mislead you.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

Never go to poor countries searching for love, they only look for visa and money, only things that interest them and they're absolutely not conservative, they would cheat on you. In the 90sa and 2000s old men in France (especially farmer) tried to get married to Russian and Ukrainian women, they had to pay off their debt, buy them load of gift, give money to their family every months and then the woman said she wanted to bring her "brother" to France so he paid for everything and turned out it wasn't her brother but her fiance...

They all did these kinds of stuff, the worst though are the Asian one, because they're passive agressive, they hate White people (especially Southeast Asian), they don't like the ways White men actually look (the only kinds of White guys they find attractive are 16 years old White guys like Leonardo DiCaprio in Titanic because only those fit their standard of beauty, any White guys over 18 would look 30 to them, not to say they aren't kind to healthy weight people or balding, they're extremely focused on looks, they would marry you for your money while constantly putting you down for your looks, I watched lots of documentary about traveling and some marry women of foreign country and it always end up with the Asian wife insulting and mistreating her husband belittle him for the tiniest stuff (hair balding, weight, belly not slim enough, wrinkles, not look young enough, dressing like a hobo , not fashionable enough, they also hate beard and any others facial hair on men, etc...)). In Asian couple is it the woman who actually rule and decide everything, she take all the money and then give an allowance to her husband while buying herself Louis Vuitton bag and demanding aways more money, not letting the man relax he need to work all the time as the work culture is very toxic and a popular saying in Asian countries is "I'll sleep when I'm dead". No sexual relationship after mariage either as they sleep with their baby / child until very late (very popular in Japan and Korea), in South East Asia they let the MIL (mother in law) live with them very late to help taking care of the children (they do this as a ways to stop all and every intimacy (cuddle, sex, kiss, etc...).

Overally they hate White people especially more and more nowadays and used them for their money while disrespecting them all the time. One time a guy tried to relax in his couch in front of the tv watching football (soccer) and his wife told him he was a lazy piece of shit, not doing anything not helping, etc... Just being a parasit and looking like a homeless dude (they act nice and proper until they get what they want, once they get children, house (under her name obviously if both live in Southeast Asia), they remove all the niceness.

After if they move to America, they cheat on the guys and leave them once they get their permanent citizenship. There's also case of the woman assassinating her American husband with the help of her "mistress" (I don't know the masculine version of the words). All in the hope if inheriting everything.

And they're absolutely not conservative at all in those countries, SouthEast Asia, East Asia, Eastern Europe and South America are not conservative at all at least not by our definition. In Eastern Europe they have sex extremely young, are promiscuous and dress sexy (same things in South America). Most there prefer marrying gangster over police officer cause they have more money and are all very materialistic obsessed with luxury brands.

The conservative girls are usually from Muslim countries though none would marry an American guys even if he converted cause he would not be taken seriously by her (and the family usually don't want their daughter to marry outside their tribes / village). Also you would most likely only attract non conservative Muslim women which is not what you're after.

Also Ukrainian women are extremely violent when in a couple fight, one pulled out a knife on her British boyfriend and every Ukrainian said it was an normal average ways to fight there, culture are ways more violent compared to us. Asian are violent mentally.

Only conservative girls in South America / South EastAsia would be the one who live in isolated village though if you bring her back to America in some years she would just get out of your house and be free cause she would get a taste of freedom she never though she would, those aren't really conservative they just don't know nay other ways than the ways they grew up in, once they get European / American freedom they're a wildcard.

Lots of parents of those girls (immigrant parents from Georgia, chechnya, Caucase and Balkan in general) have killed their daughter for honor killing because they were too westernized or got out with a White boys or started dressing too much like European, too much skin.

Best bet to get a loving conservative wife is really western countries, the others are either risk bate or total suicide (Balkan / Caucase / Muslim), in Balkan and Caucase people within their village / area but definitely not foreigner and city people are not conservative.

The conservative in western countries in France for example are often rich bourgeois who go to big école also avoid Catholic countries cause conservative wouldn't marry protestant (if they' really conservative / religious they won't). Conservative in Europe also tends to not like American / Anglo saxon sphere much and lean towards Russian liking more.

America is a pretty conservative countries so I don't know but haven't you tried to relocated into a very conservative area? At least if you want foreign wife absolutely do not go into poor countries those wife are pure scam.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Perhaps. I’ll mention that European guys are MUCH MUCH more direct than American guys. They walk up to a woman very much the way they’d walk up to order a coffee and pastry. “I want this and this” — and they look at it, smiling plainly. Done. The point of interest is made, the guy has initiated, it’s now up to the girl to choose if she wants or doesn’t want the attention.

American guys DAWDLE and hedge till a girl either wants to pass out in frustration, take initiative or simply walk away.

BonzoInBitburg · Accepted Answer

I've traveled to SE Asia a few times and I have a lot of friends there and I can honestly say that there are just as many gold diggers here as there are there. If you travel there to meet a girl, be prepared to move there because most don't want to leave. If they leave their country, they will want to move back at some point because they are very family orientated. If you afraid of being scammed, don't send money. Pick one that has a job and doesn't want to be labeled a gold digger. They are aware of the stereotypes and lost of girls do not want to be labeled a gold digger. Those are the ones you want. You will have to travel there and be prepared to drop 4-5k per trip at least once a year but realistically, every 6 months of you want it to work. It ain't cheap.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Dating in Thailand as a white man is dating on easy mode. Thai women appreciate being treated well and the average penis size of Thai men is 3-4 inches.

MzAsh · Answer

Women in foreign countries are scamming passport bros hard. And a few times it’s ended fatally. It’s understandable that these guys have their head in the clouds with the instant gratification they get from doing nothing, but it’s simply not reality. They want your money. Not you. No one falls in love that fast, they’re either up to something shady or they’re desperate af for some other reason you won’t like later on.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Okay you just used Americanisms for non Americans, what is a traditional conservative? I admit to voting labour when younger but have also voted conservative.

Radiate143 · Answer

Listen, I know girls frim"abroad" and most of think men loke this are total suckers.

exitseven · Answer

I imagine being a rich American is like spreading honey around a bee hive

dolemite58 · Answer

Be a passport bro but don’t marry or give money to any of them. Most are looking to hustle you but you can hustle them right back and ghost them.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Love? What is, "love"?

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