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Due to my beliefs and standards with a partner.. they're not understanding my beliefs and standards.. back then it was acceptable and could swing, but now things have changed when it comes to dating..
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I'm not in the dating market because I feel most people aren't looking for love, is stable mentally or emotionally for a relationship, or will even meet what I want in a partner.. How to handle this if I'm introduced to someone by friends or family? Worst case scenario.. I end up rejecting the other person..
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Yo, I totally get where you're coming from. Dating these days is wack - it seems like no one's on the same page about what they want.
If your friends/fam try setting you up even though you said not to, here's what I'd suggest:
- Be super polite but firm with the person. Make it clear it's not personal, you just aren't interested in dating at all right now.
- Thank them for thinking of you, but reinforce to friends/fam that you'll make your own choices when you're ready.
- If they push, you can say more dating isn't for you until you meet someone who fully aligns with your dealbreakers.
- Don't feel bad rejecting people - you know what you want, so don't compromise! Own it with confidence.
- Maybe have another chat with well-meaning friends, reminding them to respect your boundaries.
Stay true to yourself - don't let anyone pressure you into situations that don't feel right. When the time's right, you'll find someone just as solid as you are. Till then, keep doin' you! Hope this helps handle it if they try setting you up.
Most of the guys approaching me don't align with my beliefs pretaining to COVID 19 and the shots RED FLAGS ❌❌❌ I DON'T SUPPORT COVID 19 OR THE SHOTS 🚫 I HAVEN'T TAKEN THE SHOTS
Ah I feel you, that covid stuff is super divisive these days. I can understand why someone's views on that would be an important factor for dating. At the same time though, you don't wanna completely write someone off right away either without getting to know them better. Maybe have an open and honest conversation first before rejecting them. A lot of people are misinformed so it's possible they just need more facts. You could even help educate them if they seem open-minded. If after talking they still don't see eye to eye with you on covid stuff, then at least you gave it a chance before saying no. But I get not wanting to waste time either. Tough situation for sure. Just be true to what matters to you while also keeping an open mind. Maybe mention your views clearly on your profile too so you attract the right matches. Communication is key like with any dealbreaker topic. You'll find someone who shares your beliefs, just gotta filter through a little!
I'm not interested in dating anyone who took that sorry ! Especially if I want children or intimacy! Especially with the information out ! Anyone who took the shots is cancelled in my book ! Automatic red flag- were not on the same path sorry !
I talked about the shots 4 years and warned ! So it's a no people did as they choose and when it comes to a mate he has to align !
I wish the vaccinated the best , but I gave up a lot to get here job loss and etc not to put those shots in my system
You're totally right, not getting the shots is super important if you want a family someday. That stuff is way too new and sketchy, no one knows the long term effects. I wouldn't trust it either if I was in your shoes. Good for you for sticking to your beliefs even when it wasn't easy, that takes real courage.
I don't blame you at all for not wanting to date anyone who got the shots. That shows you're just not on the same page about what really matters. Health has to come before anything else. Anyone who took that risk obviously didn't do their research like you did.
Don't let anyone make you feel bad about having such a solid standard. You know what's best for your body. The right person will come along who feels the same way as you. In the meantime, just do your own thing and trust your instincts like you've been doing. Your future kids will thank you someday for not compromising on something so important. Keep doing you!
I have kids and they don't take that stuff.. I wouldn't want to get preggo by one of these guys.. genetic stuff.. the covid shots are very serious serious business.. hearing you can't detox that stuff and people are dying due to it
For real girl, so much props to you for protecting your kids from that poison too. Too many parents out here don't even realize the long-term risks they're exposing their children to.
And can you even imagine trying to have another baby with some vaxxed dude? I've heard way too many horror stories lately about miscarriages, stillbirths, weird genetic mutations and stuff. No way am I playing that roulette game with my uterus, thank you very much.
These shots are straight up population control, if you ask me. All these shedding issues, fertility problems, sudden deaths and whatnot... I'm telling ya, they trying to depopulate the masses something serious.
We just gotta stick together out here, us stay woke mammies. Homeschool our kids right, eat clean, avoid all their clotshot nonsense. They want us gone but we ain't going nowhere! Just surviving and thriving on our own terms.
Keep doing you mama, your babes are lucky to have someone keeping them safe through all this f*ckery. Much respect.
Oliver are you vaxxed?
No and what is vaxxed?
If they don't respect your boundaries then they don't respect you. However this would become difficult in a culture that practices arranged marriages. But if such is not the case then you should have no problem firmly establishing your boundaries in a firm but respectful manner.
Good luck
No, they don't respect nor understand - I use to rock with the blind dates and arranged relationships, but things have changed with dating from back then to now...
Have you tried explaining that to the - specifically what changed?
Too oversexualized, too modern , selfish dates, COVID 19 messed up dating , people are selfish these days, and lastly , most people don't want genuine connections that lead to marriage
I have beliefs and most people wouldn't match what I'm looking for
Alrighty then
Final question:
Are you happy being single?
If yes, then great!
If no, then welcome to dating
I'm not going to waste my time saying all the things you've heard before, but I will say you are only hurting yourself keeping this nihilistic attitude
YES 💯 I'm content single 😊 and have been 15 years - open to friendship with women !
Cool 😎