Family got extremly embaressed of me they didn't hang out with me for 10+ years?

[Anonymous]

He invited me to a house party. I made friends with his friends. One girl wouldn't stop eyeing me.

I'm a silly goof ball and got wasted and did dumb shit.

I get it their embarrassed but for 10 years?

In those 10 years I begged and pleaded to hang out but because of my alcohism and mental health they wanted absolutely no parts.

My questions is was it really that big of a deal considering everyone has made out to be An ass some time in their life? I was just loud and drunk being super young too. Did I really deserve the treatment, cold shoulder and later on the bullying by them?

[Changiis07]

Probably didn't deserve it for that long as people tend to grow up and change but some choose to part ways and that means they just weren't meant to be a part of your life anymore. They chose to move on and never look back and you should do the same but yes back then it was probably that big of a deal that you embarrass them that they didn't want that to happen again you live and learn

[Guy13]

Firstly, most people would have written you totally off. Secondly, because someone disapproves and rejects you does not mean you are being bullied.

And finally, from my point of view, you should be thankful they acknowledged you at all. Everyone else, evidently, had a better sense of who you were than you did. It is good that they are speaking with you today though and you certainly should be pleased that you all are finally healing together now.

[Asker]

Written me off because I'm goofy? That makes no sense. Your explanation is over the top

[Asker]

I should be glad of the acknowledgement like said person means anything to me today psshhh