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WHY DO MY FAMILY SUDDENLY CARE ABOUT ME AFTER IGNORING ME?

So it's a bit more complex, but to make it simple, when I was 12 I was forced to move out with my parents to a different country. Both of my siblings (older than me) were left in our native country with my grandparents.

Throughout the years they received all of the love, the attention from my parents and everybody around them. I somehow didn't exist in my parents' eyes, just because I was next to them. The kid version of me was too childish too understand that it must have really hard on them growing up without both of their parents, missing them and not being able to see them. So it kinda left a traumatic effect on him, especially in my adolescent years. We would go to shops, they would by some stuff for both of them but not for me saying we'll get you later, when I was the one being sick it was jsut meh you'll get better and it was always dramatic when it was one of my siblings. Once again uderstand the reasons now, but as a kid it was really hard.

By growing up I became really emotioanlly inexpressive and solitary when it concerns to my family and I naturally learned to stay away from any of their business. I am not close with my parents, not close with my siblings and I just accepted it as a fact. I don't want to make an effort to intigrate more into family matters and it honestly doesn't bother me at all. I like the way things are.

But for the past few months my mom and my relatives are trying to enter into my private sphere. It's honestly getting annoying. I never said i didn't like them, I am just not close with them and my mom is making a big deal out of it saying " why are you so solitary and you're always on your own". After so many years of ignoring me why are they stepping into my privacy? I don't know how to say this without offending them. They're always going " you never call us, you never speak, we didn't see your face since forever" and shit like that. Why all of them suddenly care. I grew up independantly so I hate this type of dramas.

WHY DO MY FAMILY SUDDENLY CARE ABOUT ME AFTER IGNORING ME?
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