When does a man's true colors come out?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy for 8 months and he’s nice we’ve gotten into a few arguments but I feel like he’s hiding something like he’s secretly a misogynist or something - we’re about to move into an apartment together in the fall and I’m nervous about that

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+1 y

He still watches porn while being with me and still talks to his ex girlfriends brother - says my body is perfect but I have a feeling he wants a fat emo goth gamer girl with big tits and a fat ass.. I feel so insecure please help.. I’ve talked to him about it and he reassures me but he’s been distant lately and tells me he’s been gaming so I don't know what’s up.

[kylee2437]

Why did you agree to get an apartment with someone you feel off about? maybe it’s because you are talking about serious milestones before fully knowing who you are dating

[Asker]

We didn’t agree on anything yet - he suggested it. I definitely feel like we could wait a little longer before moving in together.

[Asker]

Is 8 months enough time to know someone

[kylee2437]

It takes the rest of your life to fully get to know someone entirely. There’s women that find out their man is the man they thought they knew in 20 year marriages. You can either choose to put trust into the situation, or feel insecure and get no where

[kylee2437]

Isn’t the man*

[Nikki1989]

Why would any woman with any standards want to be with this guy?

[slatyb]

If you are nervous about it, why are you doing it? Pay attention to your feelings. Talk this out with him and others before you sign a lease.

[Danny_dan92]

Amanda?