Why are so many toxic guys in relationships if personality matters to women?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

What a phenomenal question! Thanks, blue Anon.

Depending on the woman's experience (or lack thereof), the toxicity is hard to spot... it comes out in dribs and drabs one day at a time till suddenly a few months have passed and the girl sees the full-on toxicity. The lucky girls figure it out before they have kids with the guy (or an STD... or any shared property, etc. etc. etc.). The less fortunate women get saddled with a multi-tiered situation that's hard to wriggle out of.

[Anonymous]

Because women have a different definition of "personality" than men do.

A woman will be attracted to a serial killer of he displays the "attributes" that they consider to be a "good personality". Such as assertiveness, confidence, etc.

You have to understand that most of the women who think this way have not had very good male role models growing up. Likely she was born to a single mother and will likely continue that line. These women have no idea what a quality man looks and acts like. So these women typically read false bravado as confidence and douchebags typically have false bravado in spades. It won't typically be till she's knocked up and raising that kid alone that she even realize she's been had.😆 And worse, some of these women repeat that same mistake before they learn. And worst of all some of these women will NEVER learn. They just spend thier life bitter. Because women generally never own thier poor choices.

[genericname85]

because women like competence and confidence. competence and confidence are really close to arrogance and narcissism. it can be hard to distinguish, which is why women are prone to fall for the wrong ones.

[handsomelad70]

Because many men confuse "toxicity" with "masculinity" and unfortunately, so do many women. Plus, many women fell trapped in such dangerous partnerships.

[JonCobretti]

Some girls are into toxic guys who treat them bad

[MzAsh]

The women don’t know yet

[Asker]

Huh 😕

[MzAsh]

The women do not yet know they’re toxic 🗣️

[Asker]

a lot of them do though. I guess a lot of women just like that toxic despite complaining about it

[MzAsh]

Maybe the immature ones

[Asker]

Well then there's (a lot) of immature women tge b

[Asker]

Then*

[MzAsh]

The ones you know, maybe

[Asker]

I know a lot and I've seen a lot im not even associated with

[In_Trance]

Personality matters. Toxicity doesn't

[Asker]

Personality is subjective then

[jahaims]

Plenty of broken females to accept broken males