Why do toxic women ruin relationships then blame the guy?

[Anonymous]

Like they abuse, manipulate, blackmail always threaten to breakup if they don’t get their way, throw temper tantrums. Dealing with this cause a guy a lot of psychological distress and then he has to deal with people outside the relationship coming at him because she was successfully able to manipulate them people into believing her. Because there’s the smile she puts on for the. But behind the scenes there’s abuser

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's the guy's fault for giving that kind of woman relationship status. She shows her ass like what you described up there she ought to be dropped at the curb with the rest of the trash.

[Asker]

I guess when you have a kind heart and want to see good in somone. Also I had never had a relationship prior to this

[BoopBoopBeep]

Even Hitler had someone who saw good in them. I've got a good heart. I give copious amounts to charity. I'm not going to sacrifice my self-respect for someone who proves she doesn't deserve a place at my table.

Also, you should never WANT to see good in anyone. It's there or it's not, what you want doesn't mean shite in life. All that does is blind you to the reality of who they are. If they're good you'll see it, you shouldn't have to search for it.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't get you. If you don't like someone's behavior just don't interact with this person. There is no force which can make you be with someone with whom you don't want to be.

So stop generalize and take steer of your life.

[_Maya_]

This is just a troll that pops up weekly.

[IslaTheWitch]

@_Maya_ thanks for a hint. But venting is nice anyway :D

[Asker]

@_Maya_ no definitely not a troll I’m asking because I have lost people I considered friends in this it has cause immense depression

[Asker]

Ok but the thing is she has drive away mutual friends from me

[_Maya_]

Lol okay because this isn't your 1000th account... suppose you aren't into dentistry by chance?

[_Maya_]

How much money do I have to make a year to be rich in the UK 🇬🇧? ↗

[IslaTheWitch]

@_Maya_ :D

/me goes for popcorn

[_Maya_]

😆😆 He thinks this is my first day on the job lol.

[boggboss]

Because guys get with toxic women then stay

[MissBoogus]

If it’s bad leave it

[Asker]

It’s already done but the psychological damage as well as driving friends away from me are the problems