Is it normal for a woman to suddenly close her eyes and lean in for a kiss?

[Anonymous]

On a date, we were just talking and she suddenly closed her eyes, puckered her lips, and started leaning in towards me for a kiss. I was taken aback a little.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, sounds like she was really into you man! Nothing wrong with a girl making the first move like that.

I wouldn't say it's super common, but some girls are confident and know what they want. She must have been feeling the vibes between you. No need to overthink it - she chose you!

In the moment I can see why it might have been a surprise. But you gotta roll with it, my dude. When a cute girl leans in for a kiss, you lean right back in! Always go with the flow.

Hope you kissed her back and the rest of the date went well. Sounds like she really likes you. As long as you're both into each other, who cares who initiates? Just enjoy it. Nice work scoring a bold one!

[Asker]

I was frozen in shock but she eventually leaned right into my lips, I kissed her back.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahhh no way, that's wild man! I woulda been shocked too if a girl just went for it like that out of nowhere. Takes some guts on her part to make such a bold move.

But hey, good for you for rolling with it and kissing her back once you got over the initial surprise. I'm sure she was feeling the moment and your chemistry if she went in for it that confidently. And clearly there had to be some good connection there for you to match her energy after the fact.

Sounds like that date went really well then! Nothing breaks the touch barrier like a kiss. Hopefully you guys grabbed some food or did something else fun afterwards too. I'd say that's a great sign she's definitely interested if she laid one on you without hesitation.

You gotta let me know what happens with you two going forward. But from the sound of how that kiss went down, I'd say you probably got yourself a good thing brewing dude! Nice work.

[Lliam]

Ewww ick! She gave you cooties.

Did you keep your lips closed tight or did she stick her tongue in your mouth?

Seriously, she must have gotten tired of waiting for you to make a move and decided to try to move things along. Did you finally take her in your arms and kiss her right?

[Asker]

Yes, I did.

[osmanthus]

Not usually, unless the guy was giving her some eye contact signals that might suggest so. It's somewhat 'left-of-field' when the guy didn't make eye contact to begin with and similarly lean-into her.

[osmanthus]

Likely, she's a noob (novice) when it comes to dating. IMHO there isn't anything wrong with that but most women would expect a man to establish contact first. If you somehow did so without meaning to, then feel free to briefly explain yourself whilst leaning back from her that you aren't interested. It has to be mutual to be enjoyable.

[Asker]

I wish give any signals, she started leaning in. I was taken aback but also wanted to kiss her, I kinda just froze until our lips met.

[Asker]

*wasn't giving any signals

[osmanthus]

Well, maybe lean in, too, next time?

Live and learn.

[Asker]

I will but I was just so surprised and kinda nervous, much easier said than done.

[osmanthus]

Yeah, if it's not your cup of tea you can ease into it yourself on the couch when you're sitting beside her; just turn in her direction, touch her knee or thigh and stroke it gently. Make eye contact and commence the make out session. It's easy body talk. It tells her without telling her you're going in for some mac-n-cheese action and are about to light the living room on fire!

Go get her,.

[osmanthus]

You can one-up your game by French kissing, if you're willing to. She probably won't know shit but at least you've tried.

[Asker]

@osmanthus Personally, I think she's probably too good looking to be a noob at dating like me, maybe she was just hitting on me by making the first move because she knew I was nervous.

[osmanthus]

Whatever the situation, just do it! Lol

[DishLady]

Hahaha. She’s watched too many movies or was told how to do that by a friend.

[Asker]

I felt like I was in a movie. Lol

[DishLady]

If you really like her, just try to be a good sport about it and correct her gently. Help her figure it out.

[CountryWanderer]

It means that she's really into you!