A single mom wants to date me but I only want friends with benefits. Should I say my intentions and try or just flake?

[mb120101]

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She’s not that much older but I don’t want to be involved with her kids

[kylee2437]

Do whatever you want. A mother with kids should be responsible enough to not allow a guy without serious intentions with her kids into her life. That’s on her

[Fatoumamoud]

He may lie to get under her pants. If he tells her that he want to sexual relationship with her and she still accepts him then that's on her. But he is needs to tell her his intentions.

[mb120101]

@Fatoumamoud 😂😂she goes to my family’s bar often I don’t need that drama

[Fatoumamoud]

@mb120101 It's already drama as you wanna get involved with her. So I already shared my thoughts with you and that's all matters to me. Have a nice day.

[kylee2437]

@Fatoumamoud fair, however she’s a mom, if she can’t decide for herself what’s best for her and her kids that’s on her.

[Fatoumamoud]

Told her that you want on sex nothing more then that, don't fake having a relationship with her when you aren't into it. That's would be an evil shit to do. Say what you want and let her decide if she is okay with that.

[DishLady]

Don't "friends with benefits" a single mom. She's looking for a real man, not a friends with benefits -- or a useless kid who will "just flake"...

[mb120101]

@DishLady 😂😂what should a cougar expect, at least I don’t manipulate and im honest

[DishLady]

Wow. You're talking about a human being dbag. Stop being so clueless.

[mb120101]

you’re only a few years older so if you want to try an experiment go feel up some college boys at a bar and see if they take you serious

[DishLady]

That's absolutely disgusting. You're showing your ass.

[osmanthus]

Say your intention then flake. Don't try.

[JosyJosy]

Be straight up.