Don’t you love when you show up somewhere and everyone is looking at you?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I went to this fancy restaurant on a first date and as I entered, I looked so classy and sexy at the same time, I noticed every single man on a date with another woman was looking at me, was a huge ego boost. I felt like I entered and all eyes were on me. Felt good, Shanghai is so big and to make an impression everywhere you go there as a girl from a much smaller city, feels good,

Not to mention the first date with my British gentleman ended up being really nice.

[Finchie40]

It depends on where I am at but yes it’s a good feeling being checked out by girls’ For whatever reason I been getting checked out by girls’ more this past month for whatever reason compared to other months , so I don’t know of I have this magic glow around me all of a sudden but Girls’ have been approaching me more lately and I don’t know why , I usually just keep to myself when I go out in public , and usually nobody really notices me , so I don’t know why all of a sudden I became this chick magnet? I am not complaining lol , I just want to know the reason why all of a sudden lol

[thatshydork]

I had a similar experience at a camp one time and another time at school except they were the ones who showed up after me.

They told us to dress nice for fun and I was running late and as I walked up to the dinner area, everyone turned to look at me. I felt like Cinderella (especially because I was wearing a blue dress).

The second time was at a workout class I was taking in the gym at my college. It was a walking class and I had gotten done with my walk early and my colleges baseball team had a meeting in the classroom right after my class ended. Because I was done early, I just started walking on the treadmill as I waited for my teacher to get back and unlock the door. While I was doing so, the baseball team started showing up for their meeting. They all watched me walk on the treadmill and, once my teacher showed up and I got off, walk into my classroom.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

I feel like this:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/2_iTm4_Nfcw

or this:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/uGw5YWh3RF4

A mixture of excited, self-conscious, nervous and a bit of a rush. I don't think I'm pretty, I think it's just uncommon to see a woman get herself fixed up anymore, so it draws attention.

Unless I look like this and everyone's looking at me, that is...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/D7kOtEniknQ

:D

[imtiaz45]

Experiencing attention when you show up somewhere can evoke mixed feelings, depending on the context and individual personality. For some, it might be exhilarating and affirming, boosting confidence and making them feel special or admired. For others, it can be uncomfortable or anxiety-inducing, especially if they prefer blending into the background rather than being the center of attention. The enjoyment of such moments often depends on factors like the reason for the attention, the environment, and one's mood or self-perception at the time. Ultimately, personal preference and comfort levels play a significant role in how one feels about being the focus of attention.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DE-RwwG7r-M

[AviatorTom]

Glad you had a very nice date.

I am just the opposite. I do not seek attention and prefer to just be one of the crowd. Let others, like you, have the spotlight. I'm very happy with who and what I am.

[DishLady]

It does happen if I'm attending a major event or meeting.

Though I'm not a big fan of being the focus of attention like that, I've learned to just smile and greet a few people till the self conscious feeling passes and I'm comfortably closer to the center of the room where there are a circle of friends and acquaintances.

[adam6402]

Not all attention is good attention. I could walk into a restaurant butt naked and steal people's attention off the most beautiful woman in the world... I'd be getting the most attention but for all the wrong reasons

People would much rather look at a beautiful model, but a naked dude running through a public place will always steal their attention😂

[NathanDavis]

no... I grew up stupidly shy

so I actually hated it

nowadays it doesn't affect me at all... but I still do not want to be the center of attention

[luvstoned4him]

But even better is when you get that admiration from other fashionably dressed women because you know women compete against other and when they approve. Its awesome

[Babygirl_S]

Honestly, I hate it because it makes me nervous. I just want to live my life and enjoy every day without attracting attention to myself. I have a healthy amount of self-esteem, but that doesn’t mean I feel comfortable when people stare at me. When I was in college, every day felt like a fashion show; I used to hear people making comments about my appearance. This hasn’t stopped.

[IslaTheWitch]

definitely not!!

my biggest nightmare :D

I prefer not to be noticed and definitely don't like to draw attention...

[Daniela1982]

No one would be doing that unless I was naked. Even then it would ruin their dinner. 😂🤣

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I love the attention when it's in a good place. But if it's inside a dark alley and everyone's looking.. gotta run.. 😆🏃‍♀️

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It’s got its perks but it’s a little troublesome when you’re trying to be lowkey

[sawno]

I don't have the privilege of being a beautiful girl haha.

[exitseven]

No because it usually means. My zipper is down.

[Grond21]

This has never happened to me. It sounds like a uniquely female experience

[KrakenAttackin]

This is a female thing. Most men do not wish to be the center of attention

[LostSouls_]

Hate it. Makes me feel uncomfortable and awkward

[adityaa26]

@LostSouls_ Please give me reply in dm

[paledreams]

Must've been quite an outfit :)

[rienna888]

Yes I love getting attention

[PeterLegg91]

Good luck tonight Georgia 🇬🇪

[PeterLegg91]

We would all love that 😆

[Anonymous]

Yeah sure