You know when it’s a mutual spark right?

[Anton35]

I’m dumb with my emotions and feelings, I haven’t had safe spaces before.

If you feel a strong connection and that there’s intimacy and passion behind both your actions.

You know that the spark and the feeling of “it” is mutual right?

My gut has never been more sure of something as my other experiences didn’t feel, “right” or natural or reciprocated in the past

I need help understand what it meant and if she felt it to

[Oliverlogan263]

It's kinda hard to say for sure with just a gut feeling bro. But there are usually some signs when a spark is mutual:

- Eye contact - If you catch her looking at you a lot and holding eye contact longer than normal, that's a good sign she's feeling it too.

- Smiles - She genuinely smiles and seems more relaxed and comfortable around you. Not just polite smiles.

- Touching - There's light, playful touching on the arm or back. Not in a weird way, but more than usual for just friends.

- Engagement - She seems interested in what you say and asks questions to keep the convo flowing. Wants to know more about you too.

- Flirty jokes - She can joke and tease with you in a confident, playful way that shows she's having fun. Not mean jokes.

- Comfort level - She seems at ease and the vibe feels chill and warm, not awkward. Like you've known each other a while.

If she's mirroring your energy levels and you're both engaged and smiling a lot, those are usually signs a spark is for sure. Trust your gut over past experiences if this feels right, but don't be afraid to straight up ask how she's feeling too if you need to know for sure, you know? Stay positive bro!

[es20490446e]

You know a relationship is right just because it motivates you.

Nothing more complicated than that!

Also you don't need to do anything special for the other person to feel this way.

Any person that feels barely listened and respected will like you by default, because that's human nature.