Can you feel when there is a mutual attraction?

[Anonymous]

you both seem shy or awkward around each other, one smiles one looks away and happens other way round too

[Bananaqueen1]

I'd like to think so. but then at the same time you have to see it. or else you're just going crazy. lol

[Anonymous]

What type of attraction mental or physical. If it's "physical" I don't feel it - I see it.

[Asker]

physical

[Opinion Owner]

I don't have to feel it - I see it. And if she can also "see" it then great. But as far as "mental attraction" goes I have to "feel" it. If I'm not "feeling" you then I will be turned off mentally. I'm attracted to a lot of girls physically. But I don't feel any of them mentally. So it's only sexual. There is no bond.

[Asker]

what if it feels as though the mutual attraction is really strong?

[Opinion Owner]

Impossible. Only physical. Unless maybe she's not a feminist.

[Asker]

can you tell the difference between a guy who just finds a girl attractive, or when he wants it to go somewhere?

[Opinion Owner]

I would say if he likes "just being around you" and it doesn't have to be about sex then he probably likes you.