What are the signs of mutual attraction?

[Anonymous]

How do you know when both of you feel the same way about one another?

[SteveSmith1985]

There are a billion little signs. The smiling and glancing from across the room. The always wanting to be near you. Preferably next to you. Seeming shy when they shouldn't. All sorts of stuff. How about you tell us what YOUR guy did, and I'll tell you what I think about YOUR situation (it's just better and more useful than asking us for behavior and looking for it to match your guy)

So... what's your person doing?

[Asker]

Ah great thanks. Yes so he's giving a lot of eye contact from a distance (but he doesn’t turn away) and we regularly lock eyes. He’s started sitting close to me when talking and leans in. The other day it was really close and I was surprised, because he’s never done that before, but I liked it. He does a bit of playful teasing and in a smiley/jokey way. I sometimes notice that he hovers a bit when I talk to other guys, it’s like he walks past back/forth a few times. I wouldn’t really think much of it, but because it’s been multiple times, I wonder what’s going on. That kind of thing really.

[SteveSmith1985]

Sorry this reply took so long. Luckily this is super easy. He likes you. And he's a fairly confident guy. Expect him to continue moving things along as long as you keep waiving him in. I'm sure. This one's easy. Just keep on flirting, and I see good things in your future. 🙂

[Asker]

Aw great, thank you. That’s really helpful 😃

[SteveSmith1985]

You're welcome. Have fun!

[Nikki1989]

Recognizing mutual attraction is a combination of both verbal and nonverbal cues. If you can't figure that out, you are probably in no position to be dating.

[Asker]

Well people may show signs but doesn’t actually mean they do feel the same way, sometimes people project their own feelings onto others.

[Anonymous]

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