Are you considered a ‘pick-me’ if you are willing to cook for a man you are dating?

[Anonymous]

Yes 🙂‍↕️

No 🙂‍↔️

Depends…

[DishLady]

What in the word are you talking about? 🤦🏻‍♀️


No wonder guys on here are constantly whining about not getting affirmation or even a kind gesture for their efforts.


Why is cooking for your man a “pick me” thing? Ok ok let’s say you don’t cook so you’re down on the women who can do this for their man. Now what? What do YOU do to show your man that you appreciate him? Just standing around looking good doesn’t cut it. You have to be nice. Doesn’t that make any sense to this generation? My goodness…..

[Sunnysunny123]

Nothing is about internet stereotypes and what other people think. The internet has a lot of influence on people and the way they think and the way they think they should act. Dating and relationships are not about give and take. If you like someone you do things for them just because it makes you happy that it makes them happy (and they do the same for you) and not for expecting things in return. Expecting something in return just because you do something for the other person is exchanging goods that is bussiness it is not a friendship or a love relationship.

[avery58]

Of course not

[Nikki1989]

There is no such thing.