Is it normal for a guy to ask you about kids?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend ask me how many kids i want and even ask what gender. He also sometimes ask me at what age do i want to marry

But he is also the type of person who say “ i dont dare to ask a girl if they are single or not cuz then it would be it obvious i like them” yet he dared to ask about kids?

[firenine909]

Not always but he might be trying to see what type of person you are

[Asker]

Just as a friend?

[firenine909]

Maybe more so romantically. Not fully sure. What did you tell him and are you in college or what?

[Asker]

I just tell him the truth. Like the age and how many babies and the gender.
And yeah, we are on our final year university. Less than a year to graduate

[firenine909]

What did he say to that? I feel like there’s more sex than baby planning in college lmao. I don’t know which way you swing there

[Danny_dan92]

Depending on the context of the conversation

[Asker]

Give me the context and possible meaning

[Danny_dan92]

It’s normal if it’s a guy you are dating or more specifically are engaged too

[Asker]

But we are not. We are friend. And such question he ask is always random. Like when we are eating or doing nothing, then he suddenly question that. But sometimes when we are talking about relationship in general, then he ask during that time as well

[jahaims]

It is normal for a friend to ask that