Is a guy serious with you if he talks about kids?

[Anonymous]

Is a guy serious with you if he talks about having children with you? and joke about how the kid would act me or him? Or is this something that happens in relationships?

[Anonymous]

Usually. But that doesn't mean he's commited to stick with you through hard times. My ex and I talked about having kids, living together, etc. but then one day out of the blue he just started avoiding me and a week later he broke up with me. He didn't even try to work through whatever was going on. He just gave up. So yes, he really wants to be with you. But don't think that means he'll stick around when the going gets tough.

How long have you been seeing him?

[want2helpout84]

Wow totally immature. Good riddance then to that guy. sorry you went out with a child who can't deal with his emotions and wasn't considerate or polite to you. Oh well, be happy you didn't end up with him. who wants a guy who is wishy washy and or doesn't want you back because he's too dumb to see the beautiful you!

[Opinion Owner]

Haha I totally agree. I'm not upset with myself. I'm just warning this girl that not all guys are commited, even if they start talking about kids.

[Transgressionista]

could be, but actions speak loured than words. While he can picture a future with you, it doesn't necessarily mean he will go for it later on.

[abzence]

Talking about dreams and talking about future plans is two completely different things.

To have a dream is easy. Making it into reality is harder.

[snowangle]

He's picturing a future with you. That's good! :)