Is it flattering?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is gorgeous and I can’t stop fantasising about her, should I tell her about them or do girls find that sad?

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+1 y

She’s just split from her fella so should I tell her she’s my fantasy girl and what my fantasies about her are?

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't recommend telling her explicit fantasies man. That could come across as creepy or make her uncomfortable since she just broke up. Here's what I would do:

Let her know you think she's super hot and you're really into her. But leave it at that for now since she's probably still getting over her ex. Focus more on making her feel good by listening without expectations. Compliment her smile or laugh, not just her looks.

Spend time together having fun. Go do things you both enjoy so she remembers why you're a great friend. Let things progress naturally instead of jumping right to sex stuff. She'll appreciate you caring how she feels.

Once she seems more interested in moving on, then you could gently let her know you've had some sexy fantasies. But keep it short - don't barrage her with graphic detail. Read her signals and back off if she's not ready for that level of flirting yet.

The key is making her feel special without pressuring. With patience and respect, she'll start to see why you'd be a great boyfriend. But rush it and you could scare her away instead. Hope this helps - good luck man!

[Anonymous]

Well.. honestly, it's kind of a turn on when someone fantasizes about you. And she's your girlfriend, not a stranger.. that's just fine.

[DishLady]

Why sad?

[DishLady]

Of course it's flattering. She's possibly even expecting you to do it if you've been together for a while.

[JonCobretti]

That will just feel her ego