Women asking men out?

[silvermoon84]

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What are your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I think it improves a woman's odds. I think too many women spread the disinformation. That it'll make you look desperate. I've never considered a woman desperate that asked me out. Quite the contrary. I assumed these women knew what they wanted. I think some women do this because if other women start going on the offense then they have to do the same to stay competitive, and they don't want competition. I also think where women who ask men out make thier mistake is the same place where men asking women out make thier mistake. These women simply don't put enough research into thier target and that is why they fail. Keep in mind just like men, you can do EVERYTHING right and still fail. It happens.

[HawkPerception]

I can't speak for every guy, but it definitely increases my interest in a girl if she approaches me and tries to initiate.

Women that don't wait for a guy to make the first move and think for themselves... that's an attractive trait.

However, it doesn't guarantee that I'll get with her. I still judge girls based on how physically attracted I am to them as well as how compatible I am with them.

[Avicenna]

They should- why wait around for a guy to figure it out- he might never

[ChinaGrove]

The squeaky wheel gets the oil.

[Avicenna]

@ChinaGrove: Yup

[paledreams]

I've been wanting it since my 20s - when I was 19 even, I went to university and that whole course until I graduated - I thought as I studied and left studies and then went into the real world working class etc - I've never ever seen any woman ask a guy out they fancy, and I've never been asked out either lol 😛😛😛 hahahahaha
LOL

[paledreams]

I certainly tried to make it a conversation among my 20s era, like promoting the conversation topic among friends or new friends I'd often bring up, at least once or twice, just to raise the topic " say, you notice the woman ♀️ never asks a guy, out, at all" lol ♂️ 👀👀

[Kunxter]

I think this should be normal. People should ask other people out regardless of their sex if they are interested in another person. Why not increase your chances?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to tell them. If you snooze you lose & if you don’t ask someone out I’m sure someone else will.

[JonCobretti]

Do it , instead of just keep on hoping that he would make a move

[DrPepper12]

Of course!!! Thats becoming MUCH mire popular and its about time!

[zagor]

Fine with it.

A girl approached my nephew in the parking lot at his work a couple months ago and asked if he had a girlfriend. He did, but she made the effort.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I think that's a good thing if you see a guy you want go for it

[Anonymous]

A lot of people think the world would be a better place if women did this just as much as men did but that doesn't seem possible or just seems very unrealistic

[Nicebutt462]

Never had a good outcome saying yes to women who ask me out. It always feels forced.

[paledreams]

They were desperate or they were... off... somehow? 📴 😬

[Nicebutt462]

Controlling

[paledreams]

@nicebutt462 so not submissive types in the two to tango that is, relationships? Lol 😘💕

[paledreams]

@nicebutt462 it's a tough ask indeed to have in life, to have a woman game enough to be bold to ask out a guy - yet she's too controlling or too domineering - as opposed to say a humbled submissive woman who's still got some uniqueness aka drive to ask a guy out and some drive to sometimes ride him on top in the bedroom also lol 😆 some of the time lol 🎩🔝

[Nicebutt462]

Blew my mind man!

[paledreams]

@nicebutt462 what did, her bad attitude? 😔😒 Sorry to hear man salute 🫡

[DishLady]

What about it?

[silvermoon84]

Do you think women should ask men out?

[DishLady]

Meh. I’ve never had to and I’m older so I was taught women don’t do that, so I’ve never thought to do it.

[silvermoon84]

I’ve only done it once and I ended up making all the moves.

[DishLady]

Yeah... that's what I was always told would happen. It's not the thing for me. Completely unappealing. I have to work hard all week long. When I'm with my man I'd like to just be treated like a lady.

[Nikki1989]

Been there, done that.

[RebelinSteel]

It’s fairly much a normal situation.

[NathanDavis]

it is more than normal, to me

[loveslongnails]

What's wrong with that?

[silvermoon84]

Nothing at all, I’m just curious to hear thoughts on it

[loveslongnails]

I love the idea, and the practice of it. Now you can experience what we guys go through!

[Nik1hil]

90% success rate

[nawtee_me]

I don’t mind being asked out by a woman.

[nawtee_me]

@silvermoon84 haven’t seen you in a while, hope all is well?

[silvermoon84]

I’m doing well, thanks for asking? And yourself? Yeah it’s been a while since I’ve actually posted anything. I’ve mostly been answering questions on here

[nawtee_me]

I am doing well also and like you I haven’t posted in a while. Just answering…. Nice to see you again.

[CaptainLegal]

I see nothing wrong with it.

[eagle1951]

well that's a new one on me, but why not

[bowenw]

Yes!