Is it ok for women to ask men out on a date?

[Anonymous]

[HawkPerception]

It's more than okay. It's desired and welcomed. Society has indoctrinated people to believe that men should be the ones to initiate. But if you find a guy interesting or attractive, are you really just going to let him pass you by in life because you think he should be the one to approach you or because you make an excuse up of being too shy?

Most men would LOVE to be approached. It rarely happens to them in life. We also want to feel desired. We know what it's like to have to build up enough courage and approach someone, so we're usually much more receptive and polite than women are to being approached. We respect the fact that she was able to overcome any fear and speak her mind. The more direct, the better.

[Effably]

Most people in relations I know had the girl initiate it one way or another.

Honestly if you're secure enough in yourself to do it, go for it. Nice to be the hunter once in a while. Go get him.

[Screenwriter]

Of course. But, since you're the asker, unless you clarify it's Dutch Treat, be prepared to pay for the date. That's only fair...

[DangerouslyCute]

if you like him and he is too dumb to notice it... go for it :D

[ChiTown33]

What @dangerouslycute cute said. Some women are hopelessly vague when it comes to flirting. And occasionally some guys can't read her mind. So with some guys you need to spell it out.
I'm a firm believer in, "if she wanted to, she would".🤣

[Danny_dan92]

Nothing wrong with it, but most women rather be asked out

[Asker]

That’s because men be not taking us serious when we asked men.

[Danny_dan92]

What?

[Asker]

What I just said men don’t take us serious when we ask them out.

[Danny_dan92]

Well I cannot speak for all men but personally either I just wasn’t interested, ready or spotted a red flag

[Anonymous]

Please do, and make sure it is obvious.

[RedInnocent69]

Absolutely. Encouraged, actually

[NathanDavis]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

of course it is

[dudeinohio]

Sure

[jahaims]

Duh.

[Iron_Man]

Yeah sure

[Tom567456]

Yeah

[MasterKS]

yes why not?