Ladies, how do I get better at respecting my female friends boundaries?

[Anonymous]

The friend in question is my ex, and sometimes I think back to when we dated, and I shutdown in a way, whenever she doesn’t act as close as she did when we were together, so she feels uncomfortable. She wants to be friends, and asked if I still had feelings. Am I in the wrong here?

[DishLady]

Just because she WANTS to be friends doesn’t mean you MUST oblige her. If you’re incapable of being her friend then tell her and move on.

[Nikki1989]

It is time for you to man up and respect her personal space. You are NOT her guy anymore.

[Asker]

Noted, should I worry only of our friendship?