Girls, Have you ever dated a guy and treated him like shit in the relationship because you felt you was better then him?

[Anonymous]

Why date at this point because throughout the relationship with the names she called me, the physical abuse the shame from not posting pictures with me on social media together

[luvstoned4him]

No! What kind of Awful being would I have to be to do that?

[Asker]

How normal is this because this went on for 2 years she could post pictures of everything her friends, family, pets I was the only person excluded

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker are you sure you are her boyfriend?

[Asker]

What do you mean

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker its just that you may think she is your girlfriend but what if she never considered you as her boyfriend?

[Asker]

Well this was a 2 year relationship

[Asker]

Also was it about what she could just get out of the relationship cause we co signed a car that she basically took all to herself.

[Asker]

She wouldn’t have been able to get it on her own

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker I see. so you still have part ownership of the car?

[Asker]

Well I did I essentially had to force my way out of the loan cause she was gonna totally keep it all to herself even with me still being a co-signer after we broke up

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker so guess she is gonna pay the remaining of the loan then?

[Asker]

Yes she is her and her mom was pissed when I wanted out of the loan

[Asker]

I came right out and said so I was used for a car cause that’s what it felt like I had served my purpose

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker so where is the car now?

[Asker]

She has it

[Asker]

Actually I didn’t have a choice she just send she was taking it

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker thats not right. I wouldve fight her in court

[Asker]

Well that was just a small piece of a much larger issue everyone thought was she was doing was normal. She was hitting me and calling me all sorts is names and people still took her side. She abused our dog she hit, kicked him and slammed him on his crate leaving a dent

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker she sounds like she has anger issues. It's good you got out while you did

[Asker]

She did but I was villainized for saying she needed mental health treatment

[Asker]

Like I was ther person getting beat on and called all sorts of names and her friends and her family was blaming me and defending her

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker which may be true

[Asker]

If I would have in the moment recorded any of her actions she would be in jail

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker you should of

[Asker]

She played on my fears I’m biracial she was white and she knows I was afraid to call the police due to racial factors

[Asker]

This was my only dating experience and I’ll be honest I have been afraid to date since

[luvstoned4him]

@Askee biracial as in black a f white? Or

[Asker]

Yes black and white

[Asker]

Basically I felt totally powerless she was doing what she doing everyone was taking her side and I couldn’t call the the police some days I was suicidal

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker sigh I still can't believe race is an issue. What a world.

[luvstoned4him]

U need evidence in relationships always

[Asker]

Does it matter if people didn’t listen like people had physical proof that abuse was happening and chose to ignore it

[luvstoned4him]

@Asker then I would sue for discrimination