Should I still consider leaving my boyfriend for good?

[Anonymous]

About a week ago, I caught my boyfriend in with another woman. They weren’t having sex in that moment but I’m sure they did. A I ended up finding out that they had been talking, going on dates and planning dates as well as having sex for months. He hasn't spoken to her in a week. I read a message he had sent her right after he incident happened of him saying they were going to have to chill and be separate for a while and all that tells me is that he’s just waiting for this situation to die/cool down for him to start speaking to and interacting with her again. We are like roommates now. We haven’t really spoken or talk since it happened.

[Jessikaah91]

You should leave, he wants to talk to the other woman again, you feel like roommates and with all this cheating shit why would you wanna stay. I think leaving him will do you good and you'll more than likely one day find some guy who will treat you with all the respect and love you deserve. Just remember if he can cheat on you with her I'm pretty sure he can cheat on her with someone else. It's a chain reaction!

[PeachyPie93]

Just leave him, the text to her saying "we have to chill for now" just shows, he is defo gonna hookup with her again. She clearly doesn't care you are with him and he doesn't even love you enough to stop. Let him go he is pure trash lol.

[Lliam]

Why are you "considering" leaving him? What are you waiting for?
Why do you even call him your boyfriend? He obviously doesn't consider you his girlfriend. He doesn't care one bit about you.

Leave him flat.

[Mrtcn01]

if you have a chance to find another place, leave there. because he did something and he just left other girl and he thinks it is an apology for you. no it is not.

[Asker]

Right after I caught him, she left and he talked to me for about a hour. I put him out of our room and he stayed in another room/has been in that room for the past week. After he talked with me, I overheard him on the phone with her. He called her and ”Apologized” about what went down and I couldn’t believe it. Why was she even owed an apology? Then he told her that if she didn’t want to deal with him anymore that he understood and that his feelings for her remains the same as in he loves her. He was trying to convince her they could still have what they have but just do things differently. The more that’s reveal, the more I hurt.

[DishLady]

You're still considering? I would have finished considering by now... What are you still waiting for?

[silvermoon84]

Yes, find another place to stay and leave him (if you have family or friends nearby ask if you can stay with them). This shouldn’t even be a question as many cheaters tend to be repeat offenders. You deserve better.

[Danny_dan92]

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The rest isn’t necessary to read. My response? Yes

[LiamJHayden]

Dump him and move on. No one, female or male, should put up with a cheater.

[jahaims]

Have some self respect and break up