Should I leave my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Right now I'm sitting on the edge of his bed debating if I should leave or not.
We had a small argument earlier, about me accidentally hurting him (from tickling) and he yelled at me. Anyway, things were better and we apologized. i was laying in bed making small talk and he told me he had throat cancer and ten years left to live. I was devastated and crying, then he said it was just a joke because I don't Love him. I think it was a sick manipulative revenge and I'm so upset I want to throw up. Should I leave him?

[Aassem]

Haha no you shouldn't 😂 and if I told you, you should, you wouldn't cuz you're just upset right now you won't feel the same way tomorrow I think..
I mean you're spending the night with him now that shows a big level of intimacy. If you're really upset with him talk to him about it some time soon, and about the tickling he shouldn't yell at you, but some people just don't like it I can't imagine being hurt from it unless you have tough nails and you tickled his rips lol.. Feel better and think about it later

[Asker]

It's not about tickling, it's the fact that he lied about having cancer to hurt me.

[Asker]

That's what I am conflicted about

[Aassem]

Yeah I know but isn't obvious why he did that? because of he wanted to see you crumble after you made him crumble with your tickling, I believe his ego as a man was hurt and he wanted to get revenge which is sick absolutely but you shouldn't break up with him over that just tell make him understand how much that hurt you and I'm sure he would understand and make it up to you by maybe allowing you to tickle him again lol

[williamHD]

That’s unhealthy you need to leave especially if your asking yourself this question

[williamHD]

But you both are hurting each others egos intentially or unintentionally

[Ez-Bri-Z]

First off, that is a sick "joke".

Second, is this the first time you have had thoughts about leaving him? If yes, take a few days and see if it is still as powerful a feeling as it is now. If no, then chances are it is time to go and you were looking for a solid reason to do so.

[kkirk4442]

If he thinks that was a joke, he's sadistic. You need to leave him, or he will have other "jokes" of a worse kind, down the road.

[serious]

Yes saying these kind of jokes in a relationship is not good.

[Anonymous]

Do the same to him. Make him seem like you are leaving and make him apologize.

[Deepinthought345]

Grow up both of you and stop testing each other