I get hard every time I hug my new girlfriend. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

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Turns out she gets wet the she hugs me

[Alli112]

Tbh happens sometimes with the guy I'm seeing. I don't personally care that much. Y'all's biology is a mystery to me, so I just kinda ignore it or laugh it off and move on. As long as your actions are respectful and you do what you can to avoid making things awkward then it's probably fine. (I'm under the impression that men choose to think about "un-arousing things" such as relatives or childhood cartoon characters to deal with this issue to some degree.)

I will say from my perspective it was a little strange at first and definitely made me concerned about where he was at mentally with me (ex. wondering if he was literally only thinking about sex when we hang out or something, etc), so you may have to talk about it at some point with her, but I also made my peace pretty easily and try to just take it as a sign that he thinks I'm attractive even on a subconscious level lol. Hopefully she will too.

[Lowiu]

I wouldn't mind it better my boyfriend gets a hard one every time he sees me than not at all

[Fireguy17]

Those things have a mind of their own, so get used to it.
I'm thinking you are pretty young, so that is what happens.
A slight breeze out of the west and it's hello Mr. Stiffie.

[sawno]

Just let it happen, I doubt she cares you find her attractive haha. In my relationships sometimes her energy alone can cause that.

[Asker]

Ok, we just wanted to take it slow because we only just started dating

[sawno]

Can't fault someone for being attracted to you and turned on by your presence though, taking it slow just means not to act on it.

[Asker]

Will she be upset if she finds out

[sawno]

My ex was flattered by it since it just affirmed that I was attracted to her that much.

[sawno]

Ill turn it around, lets say she visibly got turned on when hugging you. How would you react despite your promise to keep it slow?

[IslaTheWitch]

stop to hug her or stop to care... I don't think you have any other option...

[DryGermanGuy]

Put two icepacks in your front pockets before conducting any hugging. ❄️

[EmmaMary]

Stop hugging your new girlfriend... Simples!

[slatyb]

Nothing. Of course you do, that's completely normal for a young man.

[ProbablyClueless]

Keep hugging her and eventually convince her that your penis can make her feel good too.

[Anonymous]

Lol is it because she pretty or u are desperate

[Asker]

Im not desperate. she's the most beautiful girl to me. But the issuenis we said we would take it slow

[Opinion Owner]

Wdym to u?

[Opinion Owner]

How u both look

[DrPepper12]

Tell her If she hasn't already noticed. What's the problem here? I don't see any downside

[Anonymous]

Move her hand down towards your crotch to show her.

[DishLady]

You hug your girlfriend...

[Juxtapose]

Dude I can get hard if a woman talks to me just the right way so that is very normal.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about it. She isn't mature enough to be in a relationship if it bothers her. You have have a penis and that's what they do. Most women would prob take it as a compliment.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Try some viagra..

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Buy bowling shoes.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Tell her not us

[dudeinohio]

Do nothing. Natural reaction

[In_Trance]

Keep hugging her if you like it

[yes_goddess]

Hug her from behind.

[Friendlybro79]

Enjoy it