Why would a girl talk to me 24/7 for a month and not tell me she had a boyfriend the whole time?

[Anonymous]

Why talk and text me 24/7 and then mention a boyfriend a month later and hide it that whole time?

[DishLady]

UGH... Ok, so that'a just annoying. Perhaps she just thought she was having a friendly chat with you the entire time, but of course it would have been helpful for you to know about the boyfriend.

Would you have stopped chatting her up if you knew earlier?

[Asker]

No but it would have been nice to know because we talked about hanging out & and she made herself out to be single saying things like " It's not like I have anyone to return too or anyone to see after work" or when she told me to text her she smiled at me and made jt flirty saying "you have my number text me and smiled super hard" and walked off like she liked me then outta nowhere sprung up she had a boyfriend and she also told me she lives by herself... so wtf lol

[Asker]

Also she texted me 24 7 non stop and af work always on my hip lol

[Asker]

At***

[DishLady]

Oh… she was testing the waters in that case, which isn’t very nice of her.

[Asker]

Testing the waters why and for what?

[BetaBucks]

Cuz she was trying to cheat. But she wanted to swing branches, so she had to make sure you were a better match first. She probably would have slept with you a few times to see if you were going to stick around, then break up with the boyfriend. She's already mentally done with the guy, and wants to find an upgrade.

[slatyb]

She wanted your attention to validate her self-worth.

[Asker]

By hiding her boyfriend?

[slatyb]

She hid her boyfriend to hold your attention.

[Asker]

Like to get me hooked right?

[mattla]

RUN. Or well, sleep either her and then RUN.

[In_Trance]

How could you not know after a month?

[Asker]

She didn't mention it at all and her social media never even mentioned a boyfriend at all

[Asker]

Nor did they post any pics at all

[In_Trance]

How did that not come out in conversation? At some point you must have wanted to meet up and she refused...
What were you talking about?

[Asker]

Randomly she was having a bad day and said I'm so stressed out about something that happen and I said you'll be good it got figured out after helping her and then boom out of nowhere she says luckily I came home and my boyfriend is cooking for me? And I'm like you have a boyfriend wait what... and she goes yeah and I'm like... you trip me out and she's like why do I trip u out cause u didn't even mention to me u had. Abf and all she says was yeah I'm just weird like that... but was talking to me previously about hanging out and abunxha other stuff way before that and even protrayed herself as single saying things like I live all by myself and when I asked her why she was doing so much work she said well it's not like I have anything else to do after work or anyone to return too and smiled at me... like a sign to ask her out... and then came up to and we were talking and she said well u have my number text me and gave me a huge smile and turned away, like she wanted me. We texted 24/7 non stop even if we woke up to pee at night or we both fell asleep texting eachother and woke up randomly and one of us was up at 3am and then if I was at 5am I'd respond back and then she'd respond jt was like that everyday and she never once mentioned a boyfriend lol ever

[Asker]

I even thought she aas lying to me and I saw it was true lol cause I finally found her boyfriend in fb and she finally posted a pic of them after I told her I never seen him even though I did.