Found out my girlfriend had a 2-hour conversation with a guy she talks to everyday at sonic. Is this something to worry about?

[ColoSolo88]

[kylee2437]

Uhhh no. Conversation is nothing but normal, and sometimes a tapper will have you caught up for two hours without realizing.

[kylee2437]

Yapper **

[ColoSolo88]

Yeah but they moved their cars to a better spot so they could talk

[RavVid]

2-Hr everyday would have me suspicious. How did you find out?

[ColoSolo88]

It isn't everyday, I overheard someone talking about it

[RavVid]

so people are gossiping about them

[ColoSolo88]

Yeah

[RavVid]

Sorry to hear that. Lets be honest a 2 hr conversation is a lot to fit into a fast food trip.

Even if it is entirely platonic (at this point) I would infer she finds this guy highly interesting and if others are talking about it then they concur. Girls in particular tend to line up, a new guy on the way to the exit and sometimes there are negotiations to be achieved. If you dump yours, I'll dump mine kinda stuff.

At this guess you would be sacking her on suspicion only but a reasonable partner would not give you cause for concern. It is micro-cheating at least. You might never see a smoking gun.

One thing you need to realize is that you are judge and jury and there is no court of appeal. It is quite reasonable to convict on suspicion, you don't need proof to be 'beyound reasonable' criminal standard. on the balance of probabilities is fine.

I don't imagine you are feeling that good at the moment. So she's a net negative in your life.

I'd dump.

[Avicenna]

Maybe. Is he someone she'd cheat with or date?

[ColoSolo88]

She would definitely date him if she weren't with me. They have a lot of common and he makes her laugh constantly

[Avicenna]

That is definitely concerning

[Anonymous]

I would be more worry they are at a Sonic.

[jahaims]

If you don't trust her don't date her

[OhLongJohnsoning]

If you think she's the kind to "cheat"

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely