I think my boyfriend hangout with his female friend, should I be worry?

[Anonymous]

Hello guys, Thu I'm so worried bcs I just got back together with my boyfriend after 1 year and a half and I know that he has a lot of new female friends during our Breakup and I think one of them visit my boyfriend country in Japan and meet in his city, when we got back together he said I can't hanging out with other guys bcs he feels jealous bcs in the past he was a cold person and that's the reason why he also brokeup with his exes bcs his coldness and he said he's not like that anymore when he lost me and we got back together, and I told him that I trust him but this girl is so aggressive, I don't know if they finally meeting or not but this girl is in Japan, what do you think? Should I be worried? Thank you

[jshm2]

To be fair, you've made a mistake going back to a guy you're unsure about to begin with.

[Asker]

Bcs I still love him , I never take past people and I have no longer feelings for them but with him I still have that feeling

[Mafia24]

No guy & girl are friends on earth...
You're worries are valid

[Asker]

Yes I know right? Like he told me to not hangout with other guys but I'm scared if he doesn't tell me that he actually meet this "new friend" and I'm trying to be positive and this morning I sent him screenshot that we promised to each other that we won't hangout with the opposite sex if they are not our real friends, I don't know if he's busy or actually hangout with her, I'm so scared.. other people said it's okay to hangout as long as they are kissing but even without kissing I'm so scared bcs he basically guide her to show around his city and this girl is so aggressive

[Mafia24]

So kissing is fine for you?
Ma'am love is fine. But keep your mind also open.

[Asker]

No, I mean kissing is not fine of course, I mean I just don't want him to hangout with his new female friends, I don't want him to lie that he actually hangout with her

[Mafia24]

He won't listen to you at all. I bet.

[Asker]

Yeah I mean I always told him that I trust him, since he doesn't want me to hanging out with other guys it means also he doesn't want to lose me and I don't want him to lie but if he really hangout with her I think we would have argument and breakup

[Mafia24]

Darling trust is the dangerous scam.. prepare your heart for unexpected things. 😘

[Mafia24]

Ma'am are you ok?

[Asker]

I tbh worried hehe it can be he's busy with work bcs he's Japanese or maybe he's meeting her and it's weekend or its just my overthinking I don't know

[Mafia24]

I feel you ma'am...
You're sad I feel you.

[Asker]

Thank you 😔, but I wanna trust him bcs I don't want to accusing him cheating without a proof, it's horrible.. so I hope he doesn't break my trust

[Mafia24]

You're such a innocent heart 😘

I mean if guy have such a wonderful girlfriend like you but he decides to hangout with his female friend over you.

What kind of love is this?

[Asker]

Hehe thank you, I will try to trust him, if he really hanging out with her then it means his loss, he actually has a plan to meet my parents soon

[Mafia24]

Aw you have heart of gold.
But ma'am parents meeting isn't it's too fast n fishy?

[Asker]

Oh why fishy? I mean we brokeup for 1 year and a half and we got back together, before we got back together he visited my country twice to apologized and I rejected him and he made a lot of efforts to convinced me and this time he wanted to see my parents

[Mafia24]

I can't believe such a innocent heart like you still exist in today's time...

He is playing

[Asker]

Oh why playing? Sorry I'm curious hehe

[Mafia24]

Ma'am you have soft heart.
If I say anything you won't believe because you're in true love at least from your side.

So leave it.

Sad to see heart like you also get played...

[In_Trance]

You lost me at "got back together"