There was a very nice man asking my number today on street and I didn’t give, now I feel guilty?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have given my number to far weirder people, because I was just in the good mood and then never answered their messages, but now, HE WAS NICE, sweet and cute and really polite and liked me a lot and I told him “sorry, I have a boyfriend.” I now feel bad, he was so eager to get my number…

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I didn’t give my number because I was right in front of my workplace leaving work and didn’t want my coworkers to see me and think I am easy giving numbers to random strangers.

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Hey guys, the regret went away in 15 minutes… Too many things happening and too many men in my life to have regretted that for long haha

[Finchie40]

You are probably better off not giving your number to some stranger , just for safety reasons , the best thing to do is give them your Snapchat if you have one , if not , make one , it’s safer to talk to strangers on Snapchat than to give out your actual phone number

[RingOfFire]

You make it sound like you feel bad that you hurt his feelings. But that isn't the important question. The important question is do you feel bad because you had an interest in him and you feel like you made a mistake by not giving him your number?

You're not a charitable organization. You have no obligation to give someone your phone number that you're not interested in even if they're a nice person.

[Peridot25]

Giving out your number to strangers is dangerous. Especially, if they straight up ask for it. Don’t for a second feel anything because you kept yourself safe. And some of these comments make me sick telling you otherwise.

[DevikaButts95]

There's nothing you can do. You missed your chance.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I do often get asked my number. I sometimes give but never answer. I did like this one but I can’t see myself getting into any sort of dating with him.

[Peridot25]

@DevikaButts95 If she’s not comfortable giving out her number, she doesn’t have to.

[DevikaButts95]

@Peridot25 Never said she did.

[AviatorTom]

Regret is often temporary. You made the right decision.

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's never a good idea to give out your number to someone who has seen where you work.. Supposing you did give it and he called, and then you didn't answer.. Is he going to stalk you? or heaven forbid worse?

NO, despite how you are feeling now.. Trust me, you did the right thing nipping it in the bud by saying you had a boyfriend!

[molonski2]

Well , you pretty much do have a boyfriend..

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Which one are you talking about?

[molonski2]

The one you have been seeing for a few months. You still with him right?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Ah, no I was seeing him for two months. I figured he was a bit prone to lying and decided to stop meeting him. For example, he was living double life, was in Hong Kong half week and Shanghai in another week.

[molonski2]

Ohh right , sorry , I was out of the loop hahahahaha..
In that case , you should have given this guy your number for sure.

[NathanDavis]

don't feel bad about that at all...

you don't owe anything to a complete stranger like that... lol

[Likes2drive]

At least he tried, it’s hard to approach a beautiful woman for her number, I guess using the” I have a boyfriend” excuse is so automatic for you when a guy approaches even if you don’t at the moment that you messed up. I only regret not asking one out after seeing them but it passes after awhile when I leave even though I’m single but seeing someone twice a month

[dustybiker2]

Someone "nice and sweet" overheard my number once snd it turned into days of blowing up my phone. You listened to your inner voice. If you see him again maybe it's meant to be.

[MikeTheBartender]

You aren't feeling guilty, you're feeling regret because you are wondering what would have happened with him. Next time why don't you do something easier and give him social media, it's easier to block guys if he ends up weird.

[35yrman]

your hot ass f***. Who wouldn't want your #? Becareful when getting to much attention, though. Your neck might seem to high to look so good. It Can be a turn off. people Can have Second thoughts.

You did good. Don't get other guys hopes up when they won't stand a Chance.

[MK1997]

Good you didn't do it but I find you very obnoxious and masculine. I am surprised men are so into you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Well, I am not surprised haha

[MK1997]

I am saying this as a bisexual woman

[Wild_princess]

As a girl , i also won't give my number to any stranger... so you don't need to feel guilty about that

[Karina_65]

I am pretty sure you want to have guy but for some reason you are not doing this🥺

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I do kind of have…

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If I ever feel as special of a connection with a man as I felt with my ex, I’ll commit.

[Karina_65]

Oh that's great

[Karina_65]

You are so beautiful you will have someone beautiful too🙂

[Nikki1989]

You did well. You should never give your number to anyone. I have a grand total of 5 contacts on my phone.

[DryGermanGuy]

You could have pulled an Erin on him: 🙃

https://youtu.be/eKwup8UL84w?si=uEqzxf_3djIzjRMR

[Iron_Man]

You have to ask yourself are you attracted to Oriental people? That’s the big difference from your own country people Georgia compared to China

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

The last 5 people I have dated were - Dutch, German, American, British (All four of them blond blue eyed) and only one was Chinese. It’s not like I am going out with Asians only… I don’t discriminate on appearances and races. I find diversity attractive. I can be attracted to anyone. My ex was Chinese and was one of the sexiest people I’ve met.

[Anonymous]

Don’t give your number to strangers. You know sone people can seem fine then learn they’re a lunatic.

[Billlewis]

Maybe, but if we never take a chance, we may not be able to dance.
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[Opinion Owner]

@Billlewis it’s better to get to know someone.

[Opinion Owner]

The whole coworkers thinking
You’re easy is dumb.

If there’s a guy you like and he sees you’re gonna be hard…. He will probably choose someone else. You know the dudes your into probably have other women after them.

Easy to have sex with is gross. But going out with someone you’re genuinely into isn’t

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys ask for your number in Estonia? Why is your English so good if you live in a Baltic country? Most Estonians don't speak any English.

[RyanK9b]

The emotional life of a woman...
U can make this shit up...
Kinda evil

[Peridot25]

Care to elaborate?

[RyanK9b]

Her regret and emotions just easily washed away like nothing happened

[Peridot25]

Because what is there to regret about?

[RyanK9b]

No its her mind. How she had such problem with that and cared that it was easily washed away just by distraction

[Dongie]

I knew it was you. You are so conceded. Everything revolves around you.

[rapfan107]

Well sounds he asked fkr it at wrong time in the wrong place but now he's gone !! Nothing you can do just move on 🙁

[MrGSpotHer]

Well psychopaths are able to seem nice just think of that with all these random men 😜

[spartan55]

Uh oh... the humble bragger is starting to emerge.

[Peridot25]

Dude, shut up! How the fuck was she bragging?

[spartan55]

Excuse me? Are you her bouncer or something?

[Peridot25]

What’s wrong with me standing up for someone? It sickens me that a grown ass man like you reacts this way.

[spartan55]

Ugh... sickens you? grown ass man? Drama drama...🙄

[Peridot25]

You’re in your 50s and you act like a child? Then again I shouldn’t be too surprised. Many men your age act this way and I honestly don’t understand why.

[Peridot25]

Why do you act this way?

[spartan55]

I'm not acting any way. Anything else?

[Peridot25]

Act your age and not your shoe size.

[spartan55]

Ok Prince.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t blame you

[Ms_Facesitter]

No need to feel bad. Got to stay loyal.

[Yannae]

Well next time you know what to do xD

[Bklynbadboy12]

So what mad you say no to him?

[Bklynbadboy12]

So what made you say no to him?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not looking for any new acquaintances

[MacDaddyRico]

Wow.
Some people have no life.

[yes_goddess]

not familiar with guilt, sorry

[Danny_dan92]

Go find him