What are your thoughts on getting a DNA test on the first date?

[BWWMLOVE]

First date idea, go get a dna test to make sure y'all not related. Particularly for monoracial dating.

[HawkPerception]

Definitely not. Who tf is gonna take their effort to do that? And what we find disgusting today was done MANY MANY times in the past. Incest was a VERY common thing back in the past. It's just because it's so commonly taught or you could even say indoctrinated in society that it's wrong, that we think it's so disturbing nowadays. Because most people can't think for themselves. But most of our ancestors came from the same bloodline.

[BWWMLOVE]

That’s your opinion. And you and I do not have the same bloodline. Hey if you want to marry your sister cousin, go do it. Be safe and god bless

[HawkPerception]

I never said I would do that. I don't have a sister, nor a female cousin to get with, so you can throw all the insults you want

Here. Facts in front of your face. Don't take my word for it.
www.youtube.com/watch

[BWWMLOVE]

I don’t care. I only interracially date

[HawkPerception]

I also don't care. No one asked about you. Can't imagine why anyone would want to date someone as dumb and rude as you though.

[Berethor]

Many arabs marry their cousins on purpose, no big deal.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Kissing_Cousins

[BWWMLOVE]

I am not talking about Arabs. I am talking about Black couples and white couples.

[BWWMLOVE]

And I am glad that I will never have to worry about if I am dating a family member. I am going to stay interracially dating.

[Berethor]

As it says in the link the chance of birth defects from cousins relationship is almost the same as the chance of birth defects from woman giving birth at old age, you already 34, getting pretty old for having children. I Prefer my children to look like they mine, so I prefer to date my own race.

[BWWMLOVE]

lol, you are older than me, I am not that old. I have an aunt that had her last baby at 45. I got this…

[Berethor]

Yea good luck having a baby at 45.

www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/.../age-and-fertility

[Anonymous]

That is strange for sure unless your living in a remote region that you have generations of family.

[BWWMLOVE]

Nope. But if you monoracially date, you might date one of your cousins

[AviatorTom]

That's a bit over the top fir a first date. Wait until the second date. 🙄

[Finchie40]

Would be a weird first date lol

[matheus_mb]

It's bad, it's the last thing I'd expect. It's highly unlikely that I'm related to the girl I'm dating and, if I am, we'll find out when we talk about our families. DNA is just unnecessary.

[BWWMLOVE]

I think all mono-racial (same race) couples should get it. I be seeing mono-racial couples that be looking just alike.

[matheus_mb]

It might have to do with specific DNA traits of that specific race and not to the couple being directly related, unless the community of that race is too small in a specific location.

[BWWMLOVE]

No, they should get a dna test done. Especially if you date monoracially (your own race). Be careful. If I was dating black men, I would need a dna test where I live

[RebelinSteel]

Why on earth would anyone want to do that. You know who your family and relations are.

[BWWMLOVE]

I am talking about other people…I have seen monoracial couples that look just alike. Personally, I still have family don’t know…but I only date interracially.. and I will never need a dna if I date a Asian, middleastern, Hispanic or a white dude

[RebelinSteel]

That’s some messed up thinking

[BWWMLOVE]

I didn’t say you had to do it. But I don’t know really know about white couples, I am really talking about black couples (monoracial couples), finding out they are dating their cousins. I have had cousins try to holla at me…but like I said I only interracially date so I will never have to have a dna test done.

[Sasquach]

Is this an Alabama thing 🤨? I would think she's crazy for even agreeing to a date where she suspected we were related by blood

[Twalli]

That would only be a concern if neither of you know your birth parents

[BWWMLOVE]

Who is you? Not I. I will never need a dna test lol.. I don’t date my own…I don’t date within my community…I only interracially date

[Twalli]

If a person snd their SO are both adopted and do know their with parents there js an extremely small chance they're related.

[Anonymous]

I think that'd be a red flag for any person I dated.

[avery58]

That would be weird

[OddBeMe]

How poedunk is your town?

[BWWMLOVE]

I only interracially date…so I will never have to do it

[OddBeMe]

Yeah unless you date in proximity…I’d say you’re safe.

[jahaims]

Your dna data gets sold. I wouldn't do it

[woahhh152]

You are out of your mind

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[RedInnocent69]

Poor.