We haven't met, he asked me to be his girlfriend in one day?

[Anonymous]

only the second day, we called, and he asked me to be his girlfriend. i think its moving too fast but he's really desperate since he asked me like so many times in the span of two days. we haven't even met up. what should i say? if i keep saying no, would he just get bored and leave

[kylee2437]

Weird that he’s accepting to be your boyfriend without getting to know you first in a personal way

[Asker]

we did kind of talk and call, but you're right. it is weird

[kylee2437]

Talking and calling shouldn’t be enough to someone that is actually seriously about dating. You may need to set some boundaries “hey I am interested in getting to know you more, I would like to slow the pace down a little before I consider you my boyfriend”

[Asker]

i see, thanks. ill just see how it unfolds

[Yannae]

Very weird. If he is really interested he'll respect your decision in moving slower. Go on dates first.

[DishLady]

He's just trying to get into your pants.

[Anonymous]

Talk it out

[Asker]

will try tmr

[Opinion Owner]

if you wanna keep up with the guy and continue on you’re gonna have to talk and work things out

[Asker]

yepp ok. hopeflly he will understand

[Opinion Owner]

Yes….

[Enes38]

I think you want to be a lover too

[anymoree]

This is so fast:D

[Asker]

rightt