How do I stop getting offended when I see a metalhead/ rocker guy dating a “normal” girl?

[Burgundydog21]

They usually date them over me and don’t know why. Is it because I wear all black, dress masculine, and wear men’s band shirts? Is it because I’m too quiet?

[slatyb]

"Dress masculine". To most men that says "not interested in men".

[Nikki1989]

Metalheads are normal!

[Danny_dan92]

Why does that offend you?

[Burgundydog21]

Because those girls would make fun of what I wear and it offends me that they choose those girls over me

[Danny_dan92]

Fuck all of them

[Anonymous]

Well I prefer normal girls, so probably.