A guy rejected me for being needy even though I'm better looking will he come back bcz I proposed him in desperation n what can my revenge?

[Anonymous]

He liked me very much initially but then started playing games and i became needy and desperate and he started ignoring me. and i chased him harder bcz he's rich even though not handsome
And I've blocked him now after rejection and a major fight , will he come back it's been 3 months already?

[Anonymous]

Leave people alone who reject you. If you start being annoying people tend to get tired of it. If he’s playing games then why waste time anyways.

Nothing wrong with being needy (TO A POINT) but you need to find someone else whose needy. Don’t waste time with people who aren’t meant to be. Let him go play games with someone else and leave him alone

[Asker]

Aha thankyou

[Opinion Owner]

Yep. Just leave him be

[Opinion Owner]

Find someone
Else

[Enes38]

Why don't you consider giving others a chance? There are billions of men in the world who deserve your love.

[Asker]

Yup but I've a lot of resentment for the way he lovebombed me and then treated me sh*tty , i want to let go of this but unable to forgive him, I'm struggling a lot with this thing

[Enes38]

I think you can be happier with someone who loves you. Look at life, it goes on and that man is not the center of the world.

[Asker]

Yup true , decided to solo date for some months

[Enes38]

You're still young, someone else will come along who deserves you.

[Asker]

Aha thankyou, i know this , but he gets into my head sometimes like why did he do this , we were such good friends , he didn't even care about friendship etc etc and this thing kinda messes up with my head like a lice and i break down in tears bcz I'm not able to understand his behaviour n this incident has eroded a lot of my self worth , so often times i find myself at my wits end

[Enes38]

There is no reason for this, it's just that people are now abandoning strange true love and looking for new excitements. Remember, wounds take time to heal.

[Asker]

Gotcha 😊

[Enes38]

Sorry, my English is not very good,

[Asker]

No i didn't find anything wrong with your English
Which country do u belong to by the way?

[Enes38]

How to catch 😅

[Asker]

I didn't get what u mean to say

[Enes38]

Türkiye, and you

[Asker]

I'm from India

[Enes38]

A colorful country 😊

[Asker]

Thankyou and Turkish people are very beautiful 😻

[Enes38]

Thank you for your nice thought.

[Enes38]

I love Aamir Khan movies, I watched them all.

[Enes38]

What is your name

[Asker]

Strange i don't like movies made in my country lol , but I appreciate you like them n My name is Bhavna I'm from New Delhi and what's your name

[Enes38]

I watch New Delhi in movies, it seems like a beautiful place, my name is Enes.

[Enes38]

nice to meet you bhavna

[Asker]

Nice to meet you too 😊
Beautiful name you have

[Enes38]

Thank you, your name is beautiful

[Enes38]

Sorry if I wrote anything wrong, I use google translate

[Asker]

It's fine 🐱

[Enes38]

I guess you like cats 😊

[Asker]

I do like them more than dogs but never had a pet

[Enes38]

I think cats are loyal and very clean

[Asker]

Yeah i think so 😄

[Enes38]

I think it was good for you to talk to someone. Never think or care about the people who hurt you

[Asker]

Thankyou , people out here are nasty judging me
I just decided to be completely raw 😂😂
And maybe i didn't write my ques in a proper manner

[Enes38]

No you're just confused
You can write to me whenever you want, I can listen to you forever, as far as I understand 😅

[Asker]

I liked him bcz of his good boy vibe and he had got a good job , so i kinda put him on pedestal , it wasn't like i was after his money or anything , but i can say i thought okay this guy is nice by character and also has a good career so my parents would approve him

[Asker]

Not bragging tbh but i got proposals from guys even more successful than him
But i didn't like them that much bcz they icked me out

[Enes38]

But I don't think she wants it and I think it's like she used you.

[Enes38]

I think you deserve better, time heals everything.

[Asker]

I just don't know and i don't even care about Romantic thing anymore bcz it's his choice , but it was the friendship part that had hurt the most

[Asker]

Thankyou for your kind words 😊

[Enes38]

Look, we Muslims believe that if something you want doesn't happen, don't be sad because something better is waiting for you.

[Enes38]

She who looks with love sees her love

[Asker]

We also have same kind of philosophy 😊
I know it somewhere inside me

[Enes38]

It's nice that you think about that.😊

[Asker]

Yeah i do 😺

[Enes38]

So let's keep looking with love so we can find love and see it

[Asker]

Yeah I'm very much optimistic about finding love but first i want to heal myself

[Enes38]

It doesn't bloom before its time

[Asker]

Yup 😊

[Enes38]

Why don't we further our friendship?

[Asker]

How?

[Enes38]

I don't know, but if you want, we can talk all the time. I also want to learn English. Whenever you want to tell me something, I will listen forever.

[Asker]

I wish i could talk but not all the time bcz I've got a very tough exam coming head and that's why I'm refraining from social media but since this situation was stressing me out i decided to find an escape hope you understand

[Enes38]

Of course I understand and respect

[Asker]

Thankyou 😊

[Enes38]

But if you change your mind, write me 😊

[Enes38]

Enesdogu38

[Enes38]

İnsta

[Asker]

I actually sent you a request

[boggboss]

No he won't be coming back

[Asker]

Ok i appreciate your opinion

[boggboss]

If he is rich he would have plenty of choice just like yourself when it comes to women

[Asker]

He isn't that rich i mean , he just has an engineering degree from most reputed college of india not a business etc , we may call him super intelligent guy and actually he earlier told me that he could never have a girlfriend till now bcz girls he liked chose other boys over him and that he is the one always rejected by girls and in my opinion in India he can't have many options in dating bcz girls prefer looks in dating but in marriage he can have lot of options bcz of his education n even i didn't want to date him initially bcz of lack of attraction but when he gave me affection i fell for him

[Anonymous]

You are just as immature as he is.

[Asker]

I was going through vulnerable phase that's why i got so addicted to him bcz he lovebombed me and I'm only 19 😭

[HotManPlayboy]

Lovebombed?

[Asker]

Yeah he lovebombed me like I'm the only girl in the world and completely switched up his behaviour when i couldn't meet him due to some reason and started breadcrumbing until i got the confession out of him that he doesn't like me in that way and he started bitching about me to someone that that girl wasn't loyal, pure etc n idc about how good looking she is (bcz i followed his friend on insta after rejection n he got super insecure and lashed out at me and blocked me )