I’m in a great LTR but another guys come and drawn my attention hugely. help?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend 5 years. He’s amazing and kind and attentive. He’s also perfect for me, he just fits in with my life and family so well and we get on amazingly. He’s good looking and I love him.

Then I got a crush with a guy I work with and it developed. It’s continued to develop and is now a huge infatuation. We went on a staff night out. When he was drunk he told me he really REALLY liked me and he thought I was cute.

I’m all over with this and can’t stop thinking about him. We have a lot more in common than me and my partner and what makes it harder is me and the guy live in each others pockets. What should I do?

[Skinhead-1979]

Uh, no one can really advise you what to do

I would not sacrifice what I have and know to the 'unknown', that's my personal view.

And I think you should also consider how it makes you look in the eyes of other people; also the new guy. You are prepared to leave what you have as soon as something new comes around the corner; that can't be reassuring to the new guy, what stops him from thinking you do the same when the next new guy comes around the corner?

[Skinhead-1979]

We do not really control our emotions and feelings... but that doesn't mean we should always act on them

[Billlewis]

Have you asked your boyfriend if he'd consider letting you date other guys?

[Peridot25]

Throw away your 5 year relationship and go be with the new guy.

[noohair]

Romance and work don't mix well. I have seen men destroy their lives mixing work and romance.

[Anonymous]

Shame on you for turning your feelings onto another man no loyalty, but betrayal