How to get attention from guys?

[Anonymous]

How do you get guys to approach you? I know how to look good but I don't know how to show interest. How do you do it?

[Shiprex]

LOL I can speak from experience (though gay men) and I just boogied away to background music in a space on my own and some guys have come up to me and chatted to me but for a girl it's a better for YOU to go approach them. Men are tired of pulling all the time for women just to "nah tf away" with rejection.

Trust me 80-90% of single guys will give you the time of day and if you're cute they'd give more.

[Asker]

I hope you’re right. I’m honestly deathly afraid to approach guys. I just dont think I’m pretty enough

[Shiprex]

That's just it, most guys aren't THAT bothered about looks and are far keener on attitude and courage is one heck of a desirable trait. That you're as invested as he may be is a huge plus

[Stevepro68]

If you look good as you say guys will come up to you in social situations. So I have 2 questions. What do you mean by showing interest? Which leads to the next question... Are you asking how to show interest to the ones you like as opposed to the ones you don't?

[Asker]

I’ve been told I’m pretty but I’m not in a lot of social situations right now, so this one is kind of inapplicable. Some guys will just come onto any girl, but most won’t approach unless they at least have a chance with her is my understanding. I try to be friendly to everyone, but I’m not sure how to communicate interest

[Stevepro68]

Well that is not true for the most part. My experience with men and couples is as follows. Men swing for the fences. To use a baseball analogy. They will go after women who they clearly think are out of their league. Most women experience that I am aware of is that men approach all the time. Just not the ones they are interested in. It's silly but it's also true look up on you tube jim carry and Lauren Holley scene from the the 1990 comedy dumb and dumber. "One in a million" it's a funny scene. But it's also true about how men think about women they are attracted to. All you have to do is not tell them to Fff off and you will get takers.

[Asker]

I don’t do that. I just don’t get approached enough for that to be a problem. I don’t know why men are not approaching me. Is it because I’m not pretty enough?

[Asker]

I look as good as I can look, but that doesn’t always mean attractive

[Nikki1989]

I have never done anything, it just happens. Being around many men obviously makes it more likely.

[capriVib]

If you look good, simply making eye contact with the guy you like is enough. If you go a step further and greet him with a smile, you’ll get his attention.

[Jeff51]

Why don't you try asking him out? It goes both ways.

[Anonymous]

Some guys won't approach no matter what. The best way to show interest is to talk to them and make your intentions very obvious.

[Pohjolan]

Oh you just have to give them the Come here. hand sign. Note that this varies in different cultures.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u dont, leave them alone

[Jmmmfi4]

Have nice tits

[jahaims]

You can approach