How many exes have you had in your lifetime?

[Anonymous]

Give an answer with your age, I'm comparing shit 🤔

[EmmaMary]

@ChicoFromThe305

4 Ex's up to when I was almost twenty... At which time I met my husband to be.

And what exactly has "shit" got to do with this? lol

[Asker]

I see interesting, I'm just comparing 😂

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so very much indeed for the SO.

[Apple1996]

I dated a lot in high-school so like 15-20exes if you count all the small relationships but only really 2 serious exes before my husband

[Asker]

Holy crap 😂

[Apple1996]

Those were small relationships tho just like a week or two then I'd break things off 😂

[Asker]

What was the point of them then? Apples was wylin lol

[Apple1996]

I thought I liked them lol 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

And I thought "enough to go around" was just a saying 😂

[JustinTheGreat]

All my past relationships were short lived high school shit. So I don’t even count them.

but I would say 5+.

[Asker]

I see, that's counting the high school ones too tho?

[JustinTheGreat]

Yes, that’s if I were to count those. Sorry I should have specified. I’ve been with my current partner since I was 18 now. And this is my only serious relationship

[BlissfullyCurSed]

000... Zero... Null... سفر... You name it.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

The Persian one starts with ص not with س.

[Nikki1989]

Depends on what you call an ex.

Just because you dated a lot doesn't make anyone an ex per se.

[Asker]

It does stop making shit up 😂

[midnightmoon05]

19 college boyfriend.
25

27 - married - first marriage ended

a boyfriend. Ended

now happily married

[Asker]

Wait hold up what are the numbers bfs or age? Lol

[midnightmoon05]

4 boyfriend that are serious

[midnightmoon05]

Or 4 exes..

[Asker]

Not bad midnight

[midnightmoon05]

And a few here there but not boyfriend/girlfriend. Some were 1 date (I don’t count them)
2,3,4 dates… were just dating to see how things go but nothing.

[Asker]

I see

[Simslover92]

None. I'm in my first and probably only relationship. Unless you count the guy I was friends with benefits in college with but I don't.

[Asker]

I'll count them both cause it was still a connection I guess

[Simslover92]

Oh ok.

[electromagnetic]

Including the relationships in my mind?
12.
In reality, 4

[Asker]

Pause 😂

[Skinhead-1979]

7... I have just turned 45; last one was, nearly, 5 years ago.

[Asker]

That's not bad for in your 40s tho

[Skinhead-1979]

I've had only 1 long relationship... That was the last one and lasted 11 years (started when I was 29/ 30). The one before that was 9 years earlier, and only lasted a year (aged 20/21). The other 5 didn't last that long and were all before the age 19/ 20.

I became sexually active at the age of 17 which I think is a good age to become sexually active.

[StudyingAuthor]

Who counts that? I could give you a rough draft... but I'm bound to leave people out.

[Asker]

That doesn't sound good 😂

[StudyingAuthor]

Uh... it can be good if you want it to lol.

[Asker]

Pause, what? I'm saying that if you can make a rough draft and leave people out and still have enough left over, we are looking at a lot of shit here 😂

[StudyingAuthor]

Uh... Just forget I said anything... I'm being an angel right now! 😇

[Asker]

Forget would be impossible 😂

[StudyingAuthor]

Uh... it's very possible!

[Asker]

It really isn't 😂

[StudyingAuthor]

Well... you think what you think, I think what I think.

[Asker]

It doesn't work like that but okay 😂

[Agape93]

Hmm good question. For like legit relationships, probably 5

[Asker]

What about not legit relationships? 😂

[Agape93]

If I'm just counting romantic/sexual partners and relationships, 29

[Asker]

Are you sure that's not what broke your back 😂

[Agape93]

Lmao a couple blew my back out but not like that

[Asker]

💀💀💀

[Agape93]

Lol.

[Fireguy17]

I have trouble with big numbers.
Who knew that there would be a test?

[Asker]

Lmao exams are due 😂

[Fireguy17]

I was dumb on a curve.
That might be why I go into a burning building while everyone else is running away from it.

[Asker]

That's your job bro what you mean? 😂

[Fireguy17]

being a firefighter/medic we tend to go into fires/danger zones while others are running away from them.

[Asker]

Indeed so

[DishLady]

3.5 .

[Asker]

Three and a half?

[DishLady]

One guy started something he couldn't finish...

[Asker]

Are you actually 48 tho?

[SweetJoyGirl]

One and I am 22.

What about you? 😏

[Asker]

Zero, looks like I won again, it was a pleasure kicking your ass for the millionth time 😎🫱🏽‍🫲🏾

[SweetJoyGirl]

Whatever, Chris. 😒😂

[Asker]

😌😌😌

[elizamichale1]

Well i m 29 n mine were 7

[Asker]

Okay sounds pretty average for the age

[elizamichale1]

Hehe but then i stopped looking for a boyfriend coz of my profession but luckily i found someone who loved me n who loved my work as well... we had twin boys who r over 6 n half now n we also got married 2 years ago

[Asker]

That's good on you I guess 😆

[elizamichale1]

But i have dated many more though

[elizamichale1]

Good on me? Wht do u mean

[Asker]

I appreciate the time, thanks for sharing Eliza 😆💯

[elizamichale1]

😊😊

[Asker]

It's another way of saying good for you lol

[elizamichale1]

Oh ok

[NathanDavis]

four

[Asker]

Seems like a good balance lol

[NathanDavis]

pretty much in a relationship with someone... from age 16 to 30~

[Asker]

That's pretty good bro.

[Damaged00]

4, I'm 35

[Asker]

It seems you took your relationships seriously, cause that sounds like a valid number for your age

[Damaged00]

I do take them seriously. Thanks. And what are you comparing?

[Asker]

Age and the amount of peoples relationships, do the failures in previous relationships play a part in why you consider yourself damaged?

[Damaged00]

Are you trying to see what is normal? And yes you could say it's a contributing factor but not because they were failures and obviously among other things. But I don't see being damaged as a bad thing. There's beauty in the breaking.

[Asker]

I guess to the best way I can, I kinda want to get an idea. that would be cause being damaged can lead to flaws and flaws aren't necessarily a bad thing because when these flaws are embraced they only add to a person's traits and makes them more unique, although I do believe this process shouldn't be called damaged because I feel like it's more of a form of personal evolution and there's nothing broken about them, I think damaged would be when a person made personal changes that are harmful to themselves or others, so I guess it depends 🤔

[Damaged00]

I really like your perspective about flaws. But think about an object that is damaged.. it might have been dropped, kicked, stepped on, or hit against the wall, ultimately its broken.. and how do you think it got that way? It didn't do it to itself. That's what I mean by damaged. But it doesn't mean it doesn't still work or can't be rebuilt. I'm in the healing process, I'm not yet a Phoenix.

[Asker]

Yea I see your point, I always believed that when we are dropped, kicked, stepped on or hit against a wall, we heal and self improve, but I guess now that you are breaking it down this way, that is a character thing and not everyone heals and improves, some break and become fragile but I'll just say some of the most valuable pieces in places like museums with high value are damaged or fragile, let that sink in missy. 😌☝🏽😆

[Damaged00]

That was another very good perspective with the valuable pieces. You're very insightful. Yes I agree not everyone heals and improves. But admitting your damaged or broken down can actually be empowering. I sort of wear it as badge of honor. I feel as if I'm becoming the real me, I got the chance to not have a choice but to rebuild what was broken. I'm actually quite in love with getting to know myself on a deeper level.

[Asker]

Thanks 🙂

Being damaged are basically emotional battle scars but I always like to believe that if something helps or improves your life, it's more of a fix than damage but that all depends on perspective and of course... the situations and the effects from those situations, I'm glad to see you are embracing yourself and you flex your scars, your confidence and embracement only adds to your beauty, being brand new is overrated 😂

[Damaged00]

I totally agree that it's overrated 🤣

And thank you for your very kind words and insightfulness not many can grasp nor understand all that. Makes me wonder if you too have gone through things that needed healing.

[Asker]

Yea things that will take long to heal and some that will be a part of me forever but i dont see it as damage, it all plays a part on who i am today because some benefits have grown from it all and i used it to make me stronger and i even gained knowledge from it that only helps me be better, you are a cool chick tho, it was quite refreshing to have a proper conversation on this site that is standing on one leg ha

[Damaged00]

I'm glad you were also able to grow from it all and that it made you stronger. Seriously, you are very emotionally mature. You are cool too, thanks. And yes I agree, I know what you mean haha

[Asker]

Thanks I get that a lot and I'm glad you've got a positive outcome from your situations as well and thanks for sharing 🙂💯

[jahaims]

Zero

[Asker]

Legit

[CubaPirate]

Just a couple