A married man cheated on his wife? His wife caught him and after somw months he contacted me?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

I fall in love with a man but I was not well aware of his real name and other information. When and how did he get married I dont have any idea. He was playing along for many years without mentioning his commitment with someone else. For many years he was convincing me to do sex with him but I rejected to do it. Because I am virgin and dont want to loose my virginity for a man who is a playboys and is only concern about physical need. But I had feelings for him. I never ever wanted to leave him I knew he is a playboy but never knew about his marriage.

One day his wife called me and verbally abused me from different numbers. I was mentally traumatised. I thought its a kind of prank or what or is he really a married man. Furthermore, his family contacted me and verbally abused me. I can never ever forget this incident. After that I blocked him and cursed him a lot. After 4 months an unknown number sent me text on whatsapp which uploaded my favourite character picture on its dp. Which gave me indications like it was him. I replied that I dont know you and blocked him. Which was like oil on fire he started changing his dps to attract me. For 3 months he was changing it. And after that he kept quite.

Why he came back? Why his wife verbally abused me and called me sl*t? I was even not aware of their marriage if I were aware of it, it was not my responsibility to take my self away from other's husbands. Its was the responsibility of her husband to not cheat.

I am totally disappointed and affraid of every married woman now. And I start hating every married woman because of his wife. What should i do?

I am unable to love anyone or I can't move on. I can't trust anybody. He ruined me.

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1 y

I dont understand what he wants from me? I never ever have done sex with him? Why is he contacting me for many years to sleep with me. He can slewp with anyone. But what could be going on in his little brain?

[avery58]

Tbh both of you hating each other instead of hating him the most is the problem. He is the one that fooled both of you. I'm not justifying her actions since she accused you without knowing if you knew or not (could also be that her husband blamed you and she fell for it) but I don't know why you're hating on random married women instead of him... And I don't know why she's still with a cheater if she had such a big problem with it as well.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

I was so polite in the beginning but her behaviour was so bad with me. She called me sl*t and pro*titude for multiple times and treated me like a garbage. Thats why I hate her. Just because of her behaviour. I hate married women because she traumatised me so much that I see her in every married woman.

[avery58]

Would you say that finding out about her was the most traumatic, or her abuse towards you? That whole family sounds like jerks...

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Her abusive behaviour

[Sweety_Torneeya]

She allege that I slept with multiple men but I am virgin. How could a well educated woman have so many allegations about my character.

[avery58]

Have you talked to a therapist about it?

They're made for each other, both have a shitty attitude. But not everyone is like them, I'm not saying to trust anyone so easily because even I myself don't... Be careful but give others the benefit of the doubt, that will help you in your healing process. And yeah just work on yourself till you feel you are ready to make new relationships, and if you don't want to then don't just work on yourself and do whatever makes you feel most comfortable.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Awww its so nice of you❤️ I would like to get therapies

[Sweety_Torneeya]

I am unable to trust anybody

[Booklover_90]

Consider changing your contact information so that they have no way of contacting you.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Yeah I was thinling about it.
But its kind of difficult to change number

[Booklover_90]

Which is more difficult? Changing your number or their continued harassment? Think about it.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

She taken out my data from my sim number Now I would have to find a person who can give me sim. Because if I will change number from my cnic it will not work.

[MrGSpotHer]

I don't understand you, it's his folt but you hate the woman?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Just because of her behaviour
I dont understand for many years I was not fulfilling his demands still he came back
What do you think what is the reason behind it

[MrGSpotHer]

He's hurt her and you were kind of to blame too in her mind..

[MrGSpotHer]

Maybe it's like a challenge he has not been with you so he will keep trying until he does, you stop responding to him or he can't contact you at all..

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Yeah
May be its challeng for him

[MrGSpotHer]

It normally is then they lose interest it's very creepy and weird

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Interest in who?

[MrGSpotHer]

They lose interest after they get sex..

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Owwwwwww

[MrGSpotHer]

You must know this but who knows

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Yeah people are strange you dont know what they want from you. Even though if they have lots of options.

[MrGSpotHer]

Definitely

[Bklynbadboy12]

How did you get over him or are you still in love with him

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Yeah I love him. can't forget him no matter what he do. Its like I am obsessed with him. But I am not going to contact him because he lied to me about his marriage and his information.

[Sweety_Torneeya]

Its really difficult to forget him. I love him I want to talk to him again and want to see him again. But I blocked him for his mistakes ehich is unforgivable.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your smart for blocking him cause it's seems like if you see him or talk to him you'll give in and give him whatever he's wants. Thanks for the MHO

[Alex_m25]

Fakee

[Sweety_Torneeya]

What is fake?

[Alex_m25]

This history

[Sweety_Torneeya]

If you can't answer the questions you may quit now. No need to spread hatred all over my profile🙏

[Alex_m25]

I don't spread hate. It just didn't seem believable. 🤨

[Sweety_Torneeya]

I am not here to make the situation believable.
I just asked a question and explained the scenario.
by the way what is unbelievable.