This woman keeps telling people to harass me?

[CP0729]

I used to have a crush on this woman that I once knew she ghost me in high school since 2016 ghost me for ten years now I’m thinking she slept with another guy and I honestly don’t want her back now she crying saying I ain’t this or that when I keep rejecting her all the time I just think she keeps begging me and it annoying people around me won’t leave me alone because she making lies about me to the point it feel like the world hates me because I keep rejecting her I know there a possibility she was my soulmate but I don’t want her and please don’t try to convince me that I should work this out bull crap she ghosted me and dated probably multiple guys since those timeframe knewing that I did have feelings for me but I just not interested because of what she did

[DishLady]

They always tell guys to pick their battles wisely, but for SOME reason, "choose your women wisely" never makes the cut.

So you crushed on a lunatic and now she's manifesting the crazy girl stereotype. You can block her from everything... and if she's aggressive about it you can file for a restraining order. Simple.

Whatever damage she's already done is done. Put on your knit cap and keep moving.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, that sounds like a really messy situation. This girl is straight up harassing and bullying you now just because you don't want her back. That's super disrespectful and not cool of her at all. A few things:

- You have every right to reject her and move on, even if she did used to have feelings for you. People are allowed to change their minds.

- Spreading lies and turning people against you is abusive behavior. Nobody deserves to be treated that way, especially over something as personal as who you want to date.

- Just cut all contact with her as much as possible. Do not engage at all if she tries to reach out again. Give short answers if you have to respond, then remove yourself from the conversation.

- You may need to tell friends/family what's going on so they don't believe her lies either. Show screenshots if you have proof so they know she's being manipulative.

- Consider reporting her harassment to teachers, guidance counselors or police as a last resort if it gets too extreme. You shouldn't have to put up with that stress.

Stay strong man. You did the right thing by moving on from how she treated you before. Now stand up for yourself and don't take her crap! Anyone who's really your friend will believe and support you.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you have never really matured. Most people your age would well and truly over this by now.